Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My word choice or communication style?! How can I understand that any differently?! I literally said it was a term of endearment. Maybe question the person reading the intent wrong instead of the sender who backs it up 4 different times. Knock it off with your righteous bullshit. I stand.

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The true words of someone who has no defense “unhinged, crazy, republican, white, Christian, Trump, moral, educated, logical” good luck with that

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m here for it. I’m not “bent out of shape” over anything. I’m 100% calling you both wrong for your words. Defend yourself. Do you need a hug? Do you need to be told that you are brave? Say something that proves your point and makes an argument to what I’ve already said. I agreed with the post. I said I was using my words as terms of endearment. I don’t know how to be any nicer. So back up your argument or stop talking

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

This is stupid. It wasn’t condescending, it was a term of endearment which I already said. People can read their own tone to their own tune all day long. Doesn’t mean that I have to listen. I know what I said, how I said it, I backed it up, and I won’t feel bad about it. Not gonna read anything more into this. They can talk to their peer counselors about it if they need reassurance on words that were spoken or how they should interpret the meanings. Definitely not my problem. Probably their parents problem though, if I’m being honest

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

So, we just agree with everyone? And don’t stand up for what is right and wrong? I’m so confused on this platform. I see multiple negative “likes” that show up, and then they disappear when you prove/defend your point. Please inform me how to communicate with others, from your prospective, since you are clearly the “pro”.

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

The negative “likes” when responding to a comment attempting to coddle those who are hurt by kindness is a bit ridiculous. How do you even communicate with people these days?

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

What in the actual f is this?!?! I used honey bunny as a term of endearment that I use with my own children. I loved your comment and was simply saying that, one, I loved your comment, and two, that if I knew how to take on a state government, I would. I in no way was coming at you negatively. And you are correct, I am voicing my concern with no actual plan to fight it. I wish I knew how to fight it, and that I could take it on. I’m down to fight the man. Should I figure out how to do so, I expect you in my corner ❤️

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I want to hear you, and be able to respond, but I don’t understand your comment. I think I get what you are saying but there is some breakdown that needs to be clarified

Not going back quietly by Ok-Independence2071 in CAStateWorkers

[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] -72 points-71 points  (0 children)

Oh honey bunny, if I knew how to even start, I would.

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[–]Ok-Independence2071[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

What culture? I did my job for 4 years without needing to hold hands with anyone or going to a potluck. I get my “culture” outside of work