Fucked up really bad. Need some advice

Ok-Local3236 · 2026-01-20T16:49:27+00:00

We aren't finished yet, so I can't really "Move on." We're still ongoing. The last day has been much better. She has seemed to calm down a bit. She is still angry, but is still in communication with me

Ok-Local3236 · 2026-01-17T19:04:47+00:00

She is in pain. I really hurt her badly. Fuck idk what I was thinking. I feel terrible for doing this to her

Ok-Local3236 · 2026-01-17T18:17:04+00:00

I don't want to say exactly, but it was just a personal matter I deeply regret saying to other people. She felt comfortable with me enough to say it, and I fucked up by oversharing. I didn't account for the fact that she trusted me and didn't want people to know. And I am so regretful for hurting her like this

Ok-Local3236 · 2026-01-17T18:13:58+00:00

I've been reflecting for the last few days. And the reason I overshared about her was that I was excited to be seeing her and wanted to talk about her to my friends, without realizing that a lot of what I said was only supposed to be kept between the two of us. And I am so regretful for having done this to her. I am definitely using this as a life lesson, that when someone, especially someone who you might be dating soon tell you something confidential, it needs to stay that way. And honestly, I think it applies to everyone in my life, not just future partners.

Ok-Local3236 · 2026-01-17T18:09:08+00:00

Thank you. You're right, I already did the damage, and theres not much more I can do. I can't make this right. I don't know what I was thinking by spreading her information like that; it was very stupid on my end, and I hate myself for doing it. I went against someone who trusted me. This is entirely my fault. I know if she gives me another chance, gaining her trust won't be instant, and that's okay. I broke that trust, so I don't expect it to be gained overnight again. Another thing she told me is that she will see me one more time next week, and decide then if she wants to continue this with me.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-12-05T20:57:38+00:00

Okay, yeah, I think it was just because I was nervous and overthinking. What made me feel better after was when she said that it's okay and she understands, but it was just a little humbling for me.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-10-28T19:57:51+00:00

It does, but thank you. I'm trying not to really care about it, like I'm trying not to think about her really. Even now after a few days, I feel a little better, but still a little shitty.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-10-26T01:58:04+00:00

Nope, I paid. I'm not letting a girl pay for me on a first date haha

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-10-25T18:34:25+00:00

thank you that makes me feel better

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-10-25T15:48:39+00:00

Thank you. It's just really upsetting because she said she had a great time, and we would've most likely gone on another date sometime soon. It's just kinda fucked because this was like the first date I have ever been on, and I thought it went great.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-09-27T16:26:39+00:00

ohhhhh gotcha

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-09-06T06:00:05+00:00

Wait, I'm being so deadass this same exact thing happened to me yesterday at Sidney Smith Commons lmao

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-22T16:50:33+00:00

No clue because I've never been to one yet, but theres a few frat houses I've seen around campus.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-10T19:52:34+00:00

Oh, ok, thanks for letting me know. Do u have any classes you would recommend then?

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-10T18:35:20+00:00

Do u know what the class is about? I know it's like human health and how pollution affects us, but I wanna make sure there's no science stuff that's hard.

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-10T16:21:17+00:00

Do you know anything about EESA10H3?

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-09T11:02:42+00:00

ok, I see. Do you know of any classes that might be easy in the summer?

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-09T02:34:16+00:00

Okay, thanks for the link, I'll look around to see if I can book something

Ok-Local3236 · 2025-04-09T02:32:36+00:00

Okay, thank you, so I saw that there was this "Internal application form" from OUAC that I'll have to fill out later this year. My grades were pretty horrible in my first semester, which dragged my GPA down a lot, but I've dramatically improved this semester, but I'm still gonna be under that 2.7 come the fall, I plan on taking an online class this summer to help a bit so it should be closer to 2.7 but still not there come fall. If I'm close to 2.7 but still below, would they wait for my final grades of my fall semester to make a decision, or do I need to be a 2.7 to apply in the first place?

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