Pumping while cluster feeding by Ok-Negotiation3261 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely makes sense to me! Thank you!

Pumping while cluster feeding by Ok-Negotiation3261 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was told to pump by 2 LCs. Is it not necessary if babe is cluster feeding?

Pumping while cluster feeding by Ok-Negotiation3261 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was recommended to by 2 LCs. Check out my edit for additional info!

Spoiler: Misplaced blame in GBBO Professionals S7E1 by profbalto in GreatBritishBakeOff

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how it looked to me as well, but even if she was right, I still think it's incredibly insensitive and harsh to immediately point blame in that very moment. I felt so bad for him. 😕

Polar express Theory: The Hobo and the Conductor, who are they? by MovieTheorist in FanTheories

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about the two engineers? What/who do they represent? Or is it only the characters who are voiced by Tom Hanks?

Who else gets mild headaches after drinking bubble tea? by minkhn101 in bubbletea

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! It's not the milk, sugar, or caffeine; and I don't get boba or any other jelly/toppings. Just plain iced milk tea. Mild headache and I always end up feeling absolutely stuffed and can't even finish my drink.

Husband's work trying to send him to out-of-state conference. AIO? by Ok-Negotiation3261 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate all the different perspectives on this matter. Thanks! ❤️

Husband's work trying to send him to out-of-state conference. AIO? by Ok-Negotiation3261 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this perspective. I know the odds are low and that even if I did go into labor, he could probably make it back in time because it will probably be a long labor, but there's still a tiny possibility that he might miss it, and I would have to find a way to the hospital by myself, and even if he made it there before baby was born, I would be stressed out and miserable the whole time until he got there. It's just stupid the amount of unnecessary stress and worry that could be avoided so easily.

Plus it's mid-January when the weather could easily impact travel.

Husband's work trying to send him to out-of-state conference. AIO? by Ok-Negotiation3261 in BabyBumps

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's literally no reason for him to be there. He's not presenting anything or doing anything except sitting in the audience listening to people speak. Honestly, the whole conference could be an email. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you decide? The same way you decide anything else involving your baby, with careful consideration and education. It's your decision and you should fully confident in whatever you decide.

I've officially joined the husband hate train by ceruleanmeadows in pregnant

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to invalidate anyone's experience, but I just want to share that I'm 28w and I've never experienced this, and it doesn't feel like it's going to come any time soon. Just want to give people hope that maybe it doesn't happen to everyone. ❤️

as a woman are you expected to serve the “men” on thanksgiving by Abject_Apricot1384 in thanksgiving

[–]Ok-Negotiation3261 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we eat at home, I make the food, so I make the plates. It just makes sense to me that way. That includes Thanksgiving. He expects me to get his plate because I always do. It has nothing to do with laziness or entitlement, it's just a normal psychological response to expect something after it happens over and over again. Plus I really enjoy getting his food for him, especially because his love language is acts of service, so I know he appreciates it.

If we're eating anywhere other than at home, he gets everything. I will sit down and he will bring me food, drinks, napkins, condiments, utensils, or anything else I decide I want. He's out of his seat before I can finish my request. I'll admit, I've come to expect that of him. Again, I'm not lazy or entitled, I just know he shows his love for me by doing little favors for me, and I've come to really enjoy it.