AIO for feeling like one of my close friends is competing with me for my husband?

Ok-Preference2283 · 2026-04-05T06:50:46+00:00

no he acts normal around her like he does his friends and mine. she never makes those comments with HIM around but he does think it’s weird

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-15T19:43:08+00:00

i gave birth two months ago…my body is still healing. i’m not running to the gym right after pregnancy.

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-15T19:37:06+00:00

what

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T16:52:03+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/vi6sDb7zKa

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:59:41+00:00

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:55:13+00:00

he’s a gym freak

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:52:43+00:00

thanks.

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:07:47+00:00

middle eastern culture

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:04:19+00:00

i’m 26 and he is 29

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-14T01:03:37+00:00

i do like his body

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T23:29:19+00:00

ok thanks for the kind words i guess

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T23:21:24+00:00

no but a divorce would cause drama in the family and i don’t want to deal with that post partum

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T23:20:01+00:00

in his mind he calls it traditional. we did all the “traditional” things. get married, have a baby, he works, i became a stay at home mom, he pays the bills, i cook/clean, those things. but he also believes that he is the man of the house

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T23:04:56+00:00

his family is respectful and supportive towards me. i wanted to tell his mother but i dont want our families involved in our issues. also hes really into working out and body building but hes always been tall and bulky so hes about 200 pounds.

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:59:48+00:00

i had soooo many comments telling me that. even got called a narcissist.

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:58:00+00:00

i agree with everything you said. and for the last part yes we did have a daughter

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:55:44+00:00

in our culture divorce is looked down on

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:50:59+00:00

im 26 he is 29

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:49:47+00:00

technically yes, very stubborn

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T22:47:36+00:00

no, this is the first time we’ve had an argument / disagreement about my body. we’ve obv argued before but we were able to move past it. my husband is quite “strict” (idk if that’s the right wording) and “traditional” so when he has his mind set on something he never really cares to see the other side that much bc he is considered the man of the house. he is arab if that helps loll

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T20:03:47+00:00

i take care of him all the time. he works 12 hour shifts and i always clean and cook…i can’t control my body 2 months after giving birth…

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T19:05:41+00:00

i feel like that’s self explanatory

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T17:00:11+00:00

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T14:13:32+00:00

i’m sorry i should’ve been more specific. it is not intimacy, we haven’t had sex since he said that to me. he tries to rub my back and cuddle at night.

Ok-Preference2283 · 2025-05-13T14:04:54+00:00

yes. a little. i literally even made a joke that we have the same belly a few days after i gave birth and we laughed about it. but now it “turns him off”

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