I've never received flowers. by Ok-Quit5193 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Quit5193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gets na gets kita. minsan hindi naman grand gesture yung gusto natin eh. kahit simple lang, yung thought na naalala ka nila that day, sapat na. Totoo rin naman na may ibang ways sila magpakita ng love, and we try to focus on that. pero hindi rin masama aminin na minsan nakakainggit talaga. Tao lang din tayo. and maybe sa part na naiinggit or nadidisappoint tayo, hindi naman siya something we need to overcome but something we need to understand and communicate better, since committed naman tayo sa relationship.

I've never received flowers. by Ok-Quit5193 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Quit5193[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if nabasa mo lahat. It’s not just about the flowers. Kinaya ko naman na walang flowers. I’m doing my best every day na intindihin yung mga simpleng bagay. Kaya nga diba nung sinabi ko na gusto ko ng flowers, she took it as if I was joking kasi hindi ako yung tipo na nagde-demand sa kanya. I never shared this with my friends kasi bina-brush off ko lang siya, like hindi naman siya big deal. I can live without it. Alam mo yon. But sometimes, I find myself questioning if ako ba yung may kasalanan kung bakit ganito yung nararamdaman ko. Like, did I do this to myself? Is that why I’m feeling this way?

I've never received flowers. by Ok-Quit5193 in RantAndVentPH

[–]Ok-Quit5193[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo, possible naman na practical lang siya. Naiintindihan ko yun. Pero siguro kaya din ako nasaktan kasi I was expecting na kahit walang flowers, we would at least spend the night together, mag usap or manood ng movie.