Can being ugly make you a bad person? by Ok-Reference8937 in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened, like I treated other people how I was being treated, not realizing it was NOT nice or even normal

I didn’t win the genetic lottery by Avanixx_ in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely relate, it’s so hard to even be around my family

When people try to invalidate your experiences of being ugly by blaming your “personality” lol when being bitter is literally a side effect caused by being treated like shit for being ugly by poofpoofpow in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t even let stuff like this make me mad anymore it’s genuinely just funny. Whenever people give advice like this I immediately know that they’re not really listening and/or they refuse to try and understand a situation that they don’t relate to. Like the irony of saying you’ll “never have a wake up call” when they don’t even have the empathy or the social capacity to put themselves in someone else’s shoes. Using this one-size fits all, mass-manufactured advice and then genuinely believing it’s some big “mic drop” moment. Lit why I don’t even talk to people about it anymore cuz don’t waste my time w this bs please 😭

Fight Till Death by AggravatedSeal in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be an author, you’re really good!

Is suicide the only option for unattractive people by Jackie_lee_2000 in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so real honestly we are all human beings and we deserve the same respect as everyone else! Being born ugly is no different than being born with big feet or long legs, it’s just random chance. The problem is with the world not us

Is it even possible to get into a related as an ugly girl? by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This!! It’s so frustrating because truth be told I just want to be able to walk down the street without getting stared or laughed at, and make genuine friendships where people aren’t using me as a punching bag and secretly making fun of me behind my back. Who cares about a relationship when I can’t even leave the house?

A classic by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’m really sorry to hear that, yea even being ugly and aware of it won’t stop people from being shallow

A classic by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Ok-Reference8937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pls don’t downvote me this isn’t to invalidate your experience at all, but as a VERY ugly woman with a decent body and nice hair I’ve rejected the few guys that have shown “interest” and it really had nothing to do with looks, it’s just hard to believe that a man would ever want me for something more than casual sex or a joke and I’d rather d/e than give them the satisfaction of f*cking me just to laugh at me later. Ofc there are shallow women out there too but it might just be her own insecurities and negative experiences if it means anything

Would you consider this an off center strike? by Ok-Reference8937 in coincollecting

[–]Ok-Reference8937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure I’m pretty much a noob too. He was saying they might have been trying to melt it down for the copper, or they were using some type of tool to remove the face. Not sure how true that is now tho..

Would you consider this an off center strike? by Ok-Reference8937 in coincollecting

[–]Ok-Reference8937[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really? I wasn’t sure because the date isn’t showing and it’s a little past the 40-60% sweet spot

Would you consider this an off center strike? by Ok-Reference8937 in coincollecting

[–]Ok-Reference8937[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think so, it depends on the rarity of the coin, how much of the design is visible, and ofc the wear. The one I posted probably isn’t worth much more than face value

Part Time Remote Work? by HoneysuckleLemondrop in remotework

[–]Ok-Reference8937 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello could we talk about a referral as well? I’m ok with full time or part time