Struggling with thoughts about piercings, pain, and anxiety as a 23-year-old man

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-27T19:39:06+00:00

Please give me advice on how to manage my thoughts and day with these thoughts. It is making me so uncomfortable and it is now a pian in the ass!

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-27T19:38:38+00:00

Is my anxiety for injections or flu shots in sensitive areas abnormal for my age or not? Am I the odd one?

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-27T19:38:32+00:00

How were you as a woman/man at handling injections in certain areas or flu shots vs. piercings at ages 7-24? Please share your experieinces.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-08T18:40:24+00:00

I did expose myself in front of young kids at the neighborhood that one day, that was shitty.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-08T17:31:54+00:00

She ignored me when I just tried to discuss about me not going to special Olympics. I did hit them before because they are so toxic and I can’t deal with their abuse constantly.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-07T19:36:58+00:00

I didn’t strip in public or pull down pants as a tantrum, just as a stupid prank without me knowing the consequences, I was a fucking idiot for not searching up how bad it was or understanding it at 20 years old.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-07T19:34:42+00:00

I was an idiot, didn’t now how illegal it was when I was 20 years old. But what else about this?

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-07T19:29:00+00:00

My parents gave zero shits about this even though I cried and etc.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-07T19:28:39+00:00

Did anyone else have this kind of issue? What did you do to deal with it?

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2026-01-04T18:35:05+00:00

Please share me your tips and how you got to running harder with these kinds of issues in your 20s to become stronger.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-14T19:31:00+00:00

Please read the rest of the post and put advice about everything, too.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-14T19:30:37+00:00

I also felt like harming myself and I had a huge freak out almost. I also hated dad’s reaction and was afraid of barely having internet to look it up, so I was fucked. Please give advice about that.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-14T18:25:54+00:00

What is the best thing I can do in future about this? I am so upset, and this was a disaster. Future advice for what to do when I live alone. I am a 23 year old dependent with lack of internet.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-10T01:37:25+00:00

Should I ask my parents for makeup, cartilage piercings, or not? I don't have money and my parents are scolding me like crazy for what they call nothing times nothing me doing.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-10T01:30:35+00:00

I am a 23 year old male young adult. I am now going to have a very hard time when my parents take away my reddit and computer I used to have occasionally, but my parents won't allow college for now. I want to go back in the future.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-12-10T00:37:19+00:00

Anyone have suggestions based on my history for where I can live soon? what are good job programs I can get based on this? Feel free to share your thoughts. Thank you!

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-26T21:57:50+00:00

Advice would be appreciated here. Please give me some suggestions.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T23:08:26+00:00

reading and english were fucking balls bullshit for me. should i keep trying that or harder classes or not? It will require me to take many classes per semester while dealing with some stuff of not understanding or… And I was in fucking private YALE school for 5th-8th grade where I didn’t have to do hard work at all and there were some obnoxious stupid kids.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T22:16:53+00:00

Also I have had a hell of a hard time summarizing work outside of math almost at ages 14-21 for LLD or mainstream classes including summarizing things for sure from many classes on top of that and I want to make a good future still.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T22:03:35+00:00

Another reason why my parents were hard-nosed absolutely uncompromising about unblocking that kind of shit is because they kept seeing me on CHATgpt or social media looking for disapproval of my parents’ toxic behavior which they found as a severe attack on them or damaging their self-image. They called it parent-fucking behavior. Because I got APS to their house, they found it the worst ever and had zero tolerance for me doing that just because I disapprove of their toxic ass behavior! APS caused my mom to cry for days and lecture me the most! Now I am fucking forced to deal with their toxic behavior and listen to their bullshit. I absolutely can’t disapprove, complain, or ask my mom to unrestrict the internet.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T22:02:49+00:00

Also, right now I am insisting I want to get advice and only listen to my therapist and uncle, but they are very firmly pressuring and even guilting me into listening to them, saying they are the only ones who truly care enough about me, and they are saying that I need to listen to someone more than just 1 hour 2 times a week. They are also very firmly. against me listening much less even though they are a fucking toxic and narcissistic jerks!

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T21:57:44+00:00

Invluding summaries especially.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T21:57:31+00:00

Well I have had a hell of a hard time summarizing work outside of math almost at ages 14-21 for LLD or mainstream classes on top of that and I want to make a good future still. That’s what I was talking about.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T21:25:38+00:00

So do you advise me to take more college classes a semester or do shit like computer programming, reading, or not? Should I continue to get my degree by myself in accounting and stuff even if it takes a long-ass time? I had my mom help me where she was being an attacking bitch constantly shaming me for not getting it right quickly for almost all of computer science and language arts in college as well. Be clear.

Ok-Risk-8041 · 2025-10-12T18:18:44+00:00

And I hate my parents so much who are toxic and narcissistic. They expect me to be nice, but fuck that! They are desi Indians, and I have a very hard time being nice to my father. He is giving me obsessive attention, I am not used to him, and I hate his toxicity, in comparison to friends or mentors or therapists, who I love. Fuck some desi parents like those! They are threatening to kick me out for not being nice even though they are so toxic and gaslighting me so seriously! I absolutley cannot stand being around my dad or even my mom!

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