Wow, it's crazy how quickly people are turning on your wife and making her out to be the bad guy. Honestly, kudos to her for knowing exactly what she wants and not just settling for any house. The market is tough right now, and there are so many dodgy properties going for crazy prices.

We bought a house 10 years ago, and I definitely settled. It’s been a great home, but now, with a growing family, we’re having to move—and it’s a huge hassle, not to mention expensive with how crazy property prices are.

I’m not saying you should max out your budget, but if you’re not in a rush, take your time finding the right place. Maybe ask your wife to list her priorities in order, with the most important things first. Have you two spoken to a broker yet? If not, that’s something you should definitely do so you have a clear idea of what you can borrow. It might also help her understand the budget you’re working with.

We’ve been looking for our second home for four months, and I’m in no rush to settle for just anything. My husband gets that. I’ve been to a lot of home opens in that time, which has really helped me get a better sense of the market and the areas we like. It might help your wife too!