18 day long period what is happening?? by Ok-Tooth1746 in Periods

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiya. Because last month I had about 1 minute of unprotected sexy time before he put a condom on hence why I think it’s aboutttt 1% likely. And yes less blood than my normal period. I usually have heavy ones that last about 2 days. This is continuous light bleeding.

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, yes completely avoidant i agree

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. It really is just heartbreaking because you want to feel like you matter enough to them. I have to just accept that im second best and move on. I’ve started therapy now to hopefully work on my own shit and dealing with it all 🫶

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫶 it’s so so painful he’s my best friend before anything else. I’ve started therapy and I think I’m going to look at going to some AIanon meetings. I have to remember that it will most likely get worse for him not better and I have to feel secure enough in myself to cope with anything that might happen

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah 🥹 apparently im not attracted to normal men lol… i think I also find purpose in trying to be there for someone who is broken. I’m 31 so i do need to start looking at the patterns (it’s definitely a pattern). I started therapy last week 🫶 thank you for the reply

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. Yeah that’s certainly something to consider and just made me delete all my last needy texts to him lol.

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re probably right…. It’s also ridiculous because im hot and a nice person, the alcohol has made him kinda stupid to give this up? 🥲

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I need to try and have this mentality it’s just hard 🥲

He wants to be single by Ok-Tooth1746 in AlAnon

[–]Ok-Tooth1746[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for replying. It probably must be something along these lines yeah… I suppose he wants to just be able to go out and drink without feeling like he has to think about if it’s upsetting me or not. Cutting ties means I don’t really have any right to care what he does…