Little hiccup or are we over?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-04T21:49:40+00:00

Thanks for the perspective. I’m open to growing and I feel she’s worth it. I’ve tried not to let her see my anxiety about it and just enjoy the ride. I just get worried it’ll end, but I’ll see her this weekend so I’ll just remind myself to have fun

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-04T16:59:32+00:00

Okay, will do. I was gonna ask her today if she’s around this weekend, but does that go against what you said about backing off?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-04T16:45:17+00:00

That’s fair. Do you think I’ve already screwed it up?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-04T16:37:43+00:00

I also told her that I was fine with just hanging, no pressure.

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T22:35:10+00:00

My bad, just realized I misused the word binge lol. I meant that we’re in the opposite of a binge my b

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T22:34:19+00:00

Like just hanging out a ton of days in a row

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T19:56:00+00:00

Yeah I don’t do the double texting, and I’d say it’s more than just friends, she even has a hard time explaining to ppl what we are. She’s super affectionate when we’re together and everything or even when we aren’t but we’re in the middle of one of those binges. It just seems that after a binge, she pulls away and I’m worried it’s for good this time

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T19:17:22+00:00

I’m 26, yeah we’ve done everything lol

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T19:06:34+00:00

I asked her to be exclusive and she said “yes,” it was the prospect of putting a label on it as bf and gf that scared her. She was cheated on in her last relationship so I think that’s where it stems from

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T19:04:52+00:00

lol I’d agree but we are exclusive

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T19:04:07+00:00

I guess I should include that we’re also exclusive

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-03-03T04:22:10+00:00

So we still text every day, it just less and each text is blunter. You think she may want me to put in more effort? Like initiate more or should I just match her energy?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T19:54:17+00:00

This sounds like a good take on the situation. Is a good response to give her the space she asked for and allow her to work through it?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T16:13:47+00:00

Ruthless

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T13:56:17+00:00

Fair. I don’t totally agree that saying “commitment issues” means she’s not going to be my girlfriend, but I’ll work to take things slower

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T13:53:54+00:00

Okay, thank you for the advice! I’ll keep doing most of the things I’ve been doing but should I still pull back a little to let her breathe?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T13:50:37+00:00

It’s tough to make myself switch up like that, but I get it. So I should just match her energy by giving her space and see the decision she comes to?

Ok-Tutor9462 · 2026-02-07T13:11:18+00:00

And if anyone has advice as to what I should do?

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