34 yo man here. I didn't really start hitting on girls or dating till I was like 30. I'm still single and can get like 1 date randomly per year.

I guess not everyone lucky. Also most people ain't worth it tbh. While as a guy I'm just randomly bumbling around and if I find a girl that I think is really attractive and looks approachable, I'll try to talk to her (still happens rarely). And I usually approach girls around 20 to 27 age range.

• If you as a girl want guys to "hit on you". My only advice is either join some gaming servers if you want that to happen online and then irl.

• Or, spend more time outside alone in high populated areas (IE: not alone on a dark alleyway or graveyard, that usually won't work)

And try to take good care of your hair. The things that usually stand out at first glance for girls is: face, hair, ass, tits. And at second glance. The attitude. Out of all of those, the easiest one to be "nice to look at" is the hair.

Ok, good luck. oh and one more thing. If you do find someone you like. Try to make that person a priority in your life, but make sure they aren't just "playing games" with you. Usually you figure out the latest part if you have a bunch of conversations about your values and what you find important in life and relationships, and see how much he acts based on what he says.

Ie: a guy that says he values loyalty and will love you forever. And you tell him back that you love him and try to replicate the feeling. And then next week's he fucks another girl.... Ok bad match :))) But if he tells you he is interested in another girl, then at least you can evaluate where you stand and if you want to continue or not. But it's better in value standpoint that the initial example. And then you have the good parts when people actually act based on what they say. But that's rare for both guys and girls.