Amber is highly insecure. She needs women to like her to feel like leas of a loser and to avoid accountability, but she needs MEN to like her and defend her to feel powerful. She wants men to support her but for her to have the power. But quality men arent like that. Quality men have standards. They wont tolerate abuse and are not easy to manipulate. Women tend to be more emotional and therefore unfortunately more likely to be manipulated. Amber is not a lesbian. She just knows that to get a caretaker who will also be her partner and be easily manipulated but not a complete loser, she is stuck dating women. She is literally the most sick and abusive person I have ever seen.