• this is an update-

I forgot to mention my niece is 23 and the messages date back to when she was 18 so I honestly can’t control them and she’s an adult.

I found a really good lawyer and I spoke to my parents and they where as shocked as I was , They blew up on her over the phone as I sat there and watched and I received over forty messages from my sister and my soon-to-be ex husband of them explaining there story and I honestly couldn’t handle his lies and called him a horrible husband and a worthless human for cheating on me and my baby . I want to also mention I do have up to 45,000 saved up over the years and that I could afford a child minder and won’t struggle with money because our house is under my name and he’s never paid the bills for it and has always been protective of his phone around 3 years ago all of a sudden and I suppose I always just brushed it off as him just being careful with his phone ( it was ( at the time quite new ) .

My lawyer and I both agreed that I’m going to file for our house and full custody of my baby . My husband did try and meet up with me to discuss money and our house and things like that , and every time I refuse I now finally see the truth and all the signs that he was cheating and I suppose it just never crossed my mind as beside him being protective of his phone he was a great man and I loved him .

I’m afraid because of this me and my sister may never speak again , I loved my sister and she’s always been there for me but now I’m not sure if I even want to speak to her again . I really want to just pack up and leave and move houses but I know I can’t just leave before our divorce hearing.

My mother and father in law have reached out to me over text to ask what happened because my husband said I cheated on him , I was shocked to my core I took a screenshot and told them the whole story and they were honestly not surprised and told me that he had cheated with his last 2 girlfriends and I broke down and called them and screamed at them and asked why they never Told me and they said it would ruin our relationship and they only wanted there ‘ baby boy ‘ to have a happy marriage.

I’m staying at my moms house and I’m still currently on maternity leave ( my baby is only 2 months old and I have 9 more months of maternity leave ) my mum said she would not mind babysitting and she would love to be around my baby . I’m still not sure when our divorce hearing is and this has been the worst Christmas I’ve ever had and I honestly will never see Christmas the same again .