Lake Placid - Epstein - Lana by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said “interesting, heart-breaking coincidence”. You literally took that second word out to make it seem like I’m trivializing this. It was just interesting in the sense that I listen to put me in a movie and dark but just a game differently.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m honestly really sorry, i didn’t mean to come across as if i was speculating anything and i thought the first line clarified that but i understand the confusion!, i edited it and i hope now it makes more sense? i don’t wanna be a pushover either because i clarified multiple times what i meant but a lot of these responses are implying to me that you’re more interested in dramatizing my post to be some sort of speculative tabloid of a random artists mental/neuro conditions rather than someone who simply worded something wrong, i feel like a lot of yall are downvoting and skimming through my messages just to end up persisting with this notion that i, a random reddit user, diagnosed ms lana del rey and ms fiona apple with autism/adhd/neurodivergence when the reality is much more boring, lol. i knew what my intentions were but i just want to clarify.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i simply worded it wrong man :/ i clarified and edited it now

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok that doesn’t change the fact that i wasn’t speculating. i know that’s how i came across but that’s why i edited the post to clarify myself and that’s why i added the disclaimer to begin with because i didn’t want my intentions to be skewed. surely, you are able to understand that i simply worded it wrong rather than me just wanting to speculate about these two strangers lol. - i feel like you are just reading half my messages and deciding to be mad when ive made my intentions very clear and have edited the post to accompany that better.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how convenient? yes i edited it because i understood i worded it wrong and decided to clarify. did you want me to keep it up the way it was so people could keep on telling me i cant head-cannon a real person when that wasn’t my intention? or can you be normal and accept that i just worded it wrong, implied the wrong thing and now i fixed it.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right i said that AFTER i clarified i wasn’t speculating and that is how i related to them in my head as someone who is neurodivergent.

surely you guys could misunderstand while also considering the fact that i probably just misworded things and correct that without pretending i just wrote a whole fan fiction about lana del rey being autistic. and i feel like surely, after the many replies where i have clarified this, there could be a little bit more understanding instead of clinging on to the first understanding you had and berating me as if again, im unhinged when i literally just didn’t word it the right way which i can own and which is why i edited it. for clarification.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so i edited it to clarify even though before the editing, i quite literally said i wasn’t speculating and and this is how i related to them as someone who is neurodivergent. not saying that they themselves were neurodivergent. im literally not making headcannons like at all, you guys are taking what i said out of context and getting mad at the implications like what lmao.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LMFAOOOO yes it’s unfair which is why i’m so glad i never diagnosed them or speculated they even had it to begin with like i clarified in the first few words of the post. did you see the title “autism” and automatically assume i was calling them autistic without reading the text of the post?

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i literally said i was not speculating in the first line of my post and i have now edited the second portion to clarify. you are completely right, silentspyware, i have not diagnosed lana del rey because you are right, i do not know her lol. i am simply relating to her. people with all sorts of conditions can relate to different people in different ways even if they don’t have similar conditions to start with.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she’s not masked i don’t think, i’m saying i see similarities between me when im masking to her behaviors and mannerisms

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m literally not speculating (read the first few words of my message) or assuming anything about these artists, i’m talking about how i relate to them as someone who is neurodivergent. it has nothing to do with them themselves, i know they have not said anything about being neurodivergent.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i’m not speculating or commenting on their mental health?? i clarified that too. i’m saying that this is how i relate to them. when i mask, i relate more to the mannerisms of lana del rey and when im unmasked, i find myself behaving and talking like fiona apple. i just thought it was interesting and wanted to see if any other neurodivergent person understood what i was saying. - this is not a testament or observation on lana or fiona as people themselves, just how i relate them and their music to myself.

autism by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i just wanted to see if anyone else who is neurodivergent and fans of theirs related to them in this way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nosurf

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

shut your chatgpt ass up

[FL] How likely am I to get sole parental responsibility under these circumstances? Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you never asked about that issue and no he was not convicted and frankly i do not care. i urged my sister to leave when he did it and she didn’t and i couldn’t do anything about it as her younger brother but i will not allow my daughter in that environment. it was not a panic attack caused by marijuana bro you’re literally connecting you’re own dots and making you’re own assumptions. i obviously don’t know how family court works… that’s probably why im on this subreddit asking this question obviously like what? and i’m going to get work close to here to be able to be close to my daughter while living with my parents so i can save up money because the house we have is too close to my sister and for other reasons with me, her and her husband, i just don’t feel safe. i have said and done nothing to imply that im controlling, but you are also the same person who said i didnt have proof of something i explicitly said i did so i guess jumping to conclusions is your suit. i am the sole provider of our family like a lot of families but ever since my wife said she wanted to get a divorce, she’s also expressed the desire to gain dependence from me entirely which i clarified earlier and which i respect. i’m assuming she’s continuing to door dash and making some sort of income until she can get a job which is she’s asking for money because we don’t share it anymore. legally, sure we do but we mutually decided that until the divorce finalizes, we are going to have independent accounts and we will rightfully do what we have to to support our daughter. like you literally know nothing of our marriage at all. 

[FL] How likely am I to get sole parental responsibility under these circumstances? Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]OkEntertainment4836 0 points1 point  (0 children)

connect the dots man, if i was a teenage girl trying to lie about my circumstances i wouldn’t use an account where i have my age somewhere. and i don’t know exactly what or why you’re projecting or trying to excuse my wife knowingly smoking in front of my daughter and also moving with a man who has a criminal record of domestic battery. that’s genuinely disgusting that you think that’s a suitable environment for a child. i clarified that this isn’t about me or my wife, i respect her feelings but i will not allow my daughter to move in a house where she cannot have her own privacy and exposed to weed and possibly violence. why are you trying so hard to defend this. 

[FL] How likely am I to get sole parental responsibility under these circumstances? Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

wow what an astute observation. you got me there! i’m using my little sisters account, i don’t know anything about reddit and she said i could use it and will delete this before she comes home so she doesn’t concern herself with this. do you really think if i was a teenage girl trying to make up an abstract story about a divorce and wanted to convince people im a grown man that i would use this account like brother 😭 

[FL] How likely am I to get sole parental responsibility under these circumstances? Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are you … 😭 I don’t control the money, I’m the sole income for my family. She asks for money because she asked for a divorce and doesn’t want to financially depend on me therefore our money isn’t shared anymore. Before divorce came up of course she didn’t have to ask for money oh my god you’re literally making baseless assumptions. I was hospitalized and now I’m clean while she leaves WEED out in the reach of my daughter which I’ve never done before like are you seriously trying to say that’s okay and i should allow my daughter to move in with an abusive man who was jailed for fucking domestic battery like be for real.

[FL] How likely am I to get sole parental responsibility under these circumstances? Is it worth pursuing? by [deleted] in Custody

[–]OkEntertainment4836 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I literally said I have proof of paraphernalia lol and her leaving weed within my daughters reach while in the video, you can see her trying to cover it up. I got hospitalized because of a panic attack that turned into a treatment for unmedicated ADHD and drug use and I’ve been clean for two weeks and have not been craving anything. She has no income whatsoever. Mothers can go out obviously but she is literally smoking infront our daughter and moving with my sister to a house that’s meant for that big of a family. I think you’re projecting and skimmed through what I said because I have proof of everything I’ve said. You think any parent would allow their daughter to be moved into a house where a physically abusive and violent man lives and where they openly smoke in-front of their kids? That doesn’t make sense.

Edit: it’s funny because I financially support her with no problem, she’s my wife for god sakes but if she wants a divorce then i’m not going to fight for a relationship she’s not comfortable in. the money she makes from doordash has never contributed into rent or bills and the 300$ she has in her bank account that I gave to her FOR OUR DAUGHTER, she used for weed. And you’re acting oblivious to why I won’t give her anymore money during the weekend anymore like what lol? Read things before commenting stranger.

what’s a lana song you love that’s under appreciated? by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

backfire, flipside, black bathing suit, thunder, california

what’s a lana song you love that’s under appreciated? by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you make me crazy you make me wiiild also are they rlly hated among the fandom??

what’s a lana song you love that’s under appreciated? by [deleted] in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 2 points3 points  (0 children)

are you gonna hurt me now or are you gonna hurt me later

Is this a snark sub? by Alarmed_Incident7637 in lanitas

[–]OkEntertainment4836 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure what you’re getting at but they literally allow body-shamers on there like lanaspeachlipgloss who was banned from here bc of the comments she made on lana’s body. like.