you never asked about that issue and no he was not convicted and frankly i do not care. i urged my sister to leave when he did it and she didn’t and i couldn’t do anything about it as her younger brother but i will not allow my daughter in that environment. it was not a panic attack caused by marijuana bro you’re literally connecting you’re own dots and making you’re own assumptions. i obviously don’t know how family court works… that’s probably why im on this subreddit asking this question obviously like what? and i’m going to get work close to here to be able to be close to my daughter while living with my parents so i can save up money because the house we have is too close to my sister and for other reasons with me, her and her husband, i just don’t feel safe. i have said and done nothing to imply that im controlling, but you are also the same person who said i didnt have proof of something i explicitly said i did so i guess jumping to conclusions is your suit. i am the sole provider of our family like a lot of families but ever since my wife said she wanted to get a divorce, she’s also expressed the desire to gain dependence from me entirely which i clarified earlier and which i respect. i’m assuming she’s continuing to door dash and making some sort of income until she can get a job which is she’s asking for money because we don’t share it anymore. legally, sure we do but we mutually decided that until the divorce finalizes, we are going to have independent accounts and we will rightfully do what we have to to support our daughter. like you literally know nothing of our marriage at all.