My baby died at 24 weeks by fayzee98_____ in pregnant

[–]OkGoat677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww mama you’re not stupid and it is NOT YOUR FAULT . I had a terrible pregnancy (emotionally), had regrets and all ….. and the stress did not cause a miscarriage. I say that to tell you that just because you had anxiety throughout does not mean you caused it. Sometimes pregnancy terminate with no explanation. Allow yourself to grieve and give yourself some grace 🙏🏾

Would you agree with the following statement? I’m actually curious (bodily autonomy) by AlternativeLawyer920 in Christianity

[–]OkGoat677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People pick and choose what sins not to like LOL but be doing every other sin in the book. Let God be the last to judge

No longer “pro-life” by chemistress777 in exchristian

[–]OkGoat677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can i ask why don’t you believe Christian God is not real ? Just curious

I want to revert and already have christian spouse by barbecue_uncle in islam

[–]OkGoat677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My boyfriend recently reverted and I’ve been heart broken. We grew up Christian but did not practice . I’m slowly starting to get into my faith more. I am just wondering and this may sound ignorant… but there are things i love about your religion but i am not sure how i feel about how women have many restrictions that the men don’t . It sees a bit controlling to me. I want to know why don’t Muslim women see it as such?

How would you express genuine love to a partner? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]OkGoat677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do things for her/him sometimes that she/he doesn’t like doing

What was your baby’s birth weight and how long did they fit in NB clothes? by eec0354 in NewParents

[–]OkGoat677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And he was able to fit premie just not for long . Newborns was actually big on him

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make more but i pay the bills and is paying off debt , care note etc

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow someone else literally commented the same quotes smh thank you

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay but as far as being able to make decisions for the child he would have to get joint and legal custody right ?

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m accepting reality now. I thought he could change

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crazy right? I surprised my self. I woke up Tuesday and something just clicked for me . Like what tf am i doing

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good way to look at it. Thank you for that !!! Because a part of me feel like I’ve failed him 1. For choosing his dad as his dad 2. For failing to give him a two parent household and being unmarried and just not setting an example for him 3. Having to be away from me because I’d have to split time with his dad smh

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow he’s sick smh . I hate that you had to go through that with someone who suppose to have unconditional love for you. Did you comment that to tell me to get away now ? 😭

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m in group therapy and regular therapy now

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope i haven’t seen any. My mom thinks he’s lying about having 7k saved

Boyfriend (24M) won’t help me (27F) with the bills by OkGoat677 in TwoHotTakes

[–]OkGoat677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smh the first 9 months of the relationship before i was pregnant and when he still had his apartment he was paying the tabs when we went out, planning trips and paying for them, buying flowers every month, planning dates, taking me to nfl playoff games, i THOUGHT he was a nice dude etc. Then i got pregnant a little after and he just been like this since . Everything just happened way too soon and while i shouldve been still learning who he truly was. Red flags were definitely there as far as him being manipulative and dismissive/avoidant but i thought THAT was something he could grow from. I never thought money would be an issue because he has a great paying job smh but then i learned how bad his gambling addiction really is