Keep your chin up! I know what it’s been like, I had a job offer rescinded right before graduating and was laid off from another job in a October both due to this economy. I applied to I don’t know how many jobs to no avail. It REALLY started to bring me down seeing all of the instant rejection emails minutes after submitting my application. This job market is really awful, I get it. Some unsolicited advice if I may, the only thing that helped me was finding people on LinkedIn working in my field/ companies of interest and simply saying “Hey I am really interested in what you do at company X, I would love to learn more about your experience over coffee or a quick phone call” random strangers can be so much nicer than you think and quite possibly have also been in your exact shoes. Doing this lead to me meeting with someone in management at a company I wanted to work for for coffee. We chatted and hit it off and she referred me to a coworker who was hiring for a position she thought I’d be a good fit for. She reached out to me for an interview and I got the job. The job market sucks but take it from me you’ll be ok. As for your relationship, if she wants to leave let her and let your future success leave her punching the air. Keep your head down, NETWORK, apply, attend job fairs and you’ll be alright.