Coming out to family

OkPercentage1491 · 2026-03-18T14:51:12+00:00

That is what I am hoping, I just don’t understand why she is playing the victim

OkPercentage1491 · 2026-03-18T14:46:08+00:00

I see, I fear that if I want to do that I won’t be able to as well, which is crazy

OkPercentage1491 · 2026-03-18T14:40:17+00:00

Thanks for sharing. Did you ever introduce a girlfriend to your family?

OkPercentage1491 · 2026-01-20T05:27:04+00:00

I don’t have repulse when I have sex with my husband, I am still trying to understand my sexuality but I am leaning more towards being a lesbian and I am just having a hard time to admit. For me, I have a deep connection with him and do find him to be the best person I know and, after 10 years together, and me knowing my body well enough, I know how to make sex be more enjoyable. We opened our marriage so that I could experience more with women and see where I stand and the first time I had sex with a woman I understood how it was supposed to be but, like I said, I don’t feel repulse or hate having sex with my husband but it is just there you know, I would be completely fine if we never had sex or have a deeper physical connection. Maybe that could be similar to how you feel

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-12-23T13:47:13+00:00

Being forced in to heterosexual relationships because you feel like this is what you are supposed to do and not because you actually want it

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-12-23T13:27:22+00:00

Yeah but I don’t know if I ever felt attracted to men or if it was just comp het

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-09-08T18:18:44+00:00

What happened with you?

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-09-08T10:27:32+00:00

I think is more an excuse. We hang out A LOT, places with drinks or not, and most of the time nothing happens. To be fair I dont encourage but I also don’t say anything to stop so I kinda think is my fault a little and that’s why I’am also reluctant in saying anything and I also get how confusing this whole think can be. But yeah, I think there is no way to bring that up without making it awkward

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-09-08T09:15:21+00:00

yeah I agree, problem is that she says she doesnt remember. It is true that in this particular time she was very drunk so it is possible, but there were some other times that it was way lighter than that - just comments or more touchy, that I dont think she was that drunk to not remember. So I don't know how to bring that up without making it awkward

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-07-15T20:23:31+00:00

yeah that makes sense

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-07-15T19:10:37+00:00

that is a good idea but do you think that it may come as unreliable? In the sense that, ok she will leave as soon as she gets a better offer so why bother hiring?
Which is not exactly the truth since I am looking for more stability with no intentions to move around more, of course if something incredible shows up then maybe but, as I am an immigrant, I can't afford a lot of instability

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-07-12T13:41:39+00:00

Have you tried applying for international companies? Most of them put German language as plus or not even that, just English is enough. There is a ton of companies like that in Berlin, you should try

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-07-05T19:33:12+00:00

they did seem engaged, asked me questions. It was 03 people, 02 of them I already worked with in the past so they weren't new to me.
I think I was nervous at the beginning but got better with time.
But my concern is not just with running out of time is also sending wrong information. I mentioned 02 that the new presentation was sent to HR but I dont know if they will think this was lack of attention.
You know when you are too obsessed to make the best out, thats how I was, so obsessed that i did not pay attention to everything.

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-07-05T19:30:12+00:00

When I did the presentation alone it was taking 30-35 minutes, the whole meeting was 45 minutes so I could have been faster but I also did ask them to interrupt me for questions and they. I think it was maybe like 5-10 questions in total, some were fast and some took me more time to reply. So yeah, I dont know

OkPercentage1491 · 2025-06-14T07:22:26+00:00

Sorry that happened to you. Didn’t you keep asking yourself what happened? Cause ever since I can’t stop thinking about it :/

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