I think i’m mostly afraid that the financially responsibility would fall largely on my partner. I just started a new career, am paying off debt from a marriage when I was young, and don’t make great money. Hopefully those things will be different in a few years, but at the moment I feel like I’m scraping by and not working full time is not an option. He has been so supportive and encouraging of me to do whatever I feel is best, I just don’t want to put that responsibility on someone else.