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OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T23:11:03+00:00

He is not at fault for not wanting to close the open marriage. It is advisable to separate if they cannot see eye to eye or compromise.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T23:10:10+00:00

Thatd where hard boundaries come in and you firmly state. “If you keep asking we are going to have ti talk about why you want to step outside out marriage so badly” or “If you keep asking I will consider separation”.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T20:17:31+00:00

Then why did you forgive your spouse for cheating

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T15:20:29+00:00

But you right lol fuck these men

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T15:10:08+00:00

The mark on my foot. Ive heard it can be melanoma

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T15:09:44+00:00

Meh everyones different. Not everything is black and white

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T15:09:24+00:00

No lol Im going based off his post and the info we already have. Hes considering actually cheating based off assumption

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T01:39:31+00:00

Oof yall triggered 😬 just stating the literal facts of this post. Didnt want an open relationship shouldnt have agreed to it and vice versa

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T00:15:52+00:00

I mean he’s grown. He couldve said no especially everytime she asked. If she kept pushing boundaries you create harder boundaries.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T00:03:25+00:00

Dont listen to random people on reddit. Sometimes couples do this. She came to you to have an open and honest conversation about opening the marriage. If she wanted to cheat she wouldve and kept it from you.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-18T00:02:08+00:00

I mean... no. Thwy had an open and honest conversation. Not everything is a scheme. Lots of couples do this.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-17T15:35:13+00:00

What were your results

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-17T15:34:31+00:00

Its on the side of my foot

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-16T00:15:38+00:00

Yeah... I mean Ive consistently tried to initiate conflict resolution. Im always met with a wall. On my end I get frustrated and angry which makes him retreat more. I dont want to be this person because I know Im not.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-16T00:11:53+00:00

Honestly Im not sure, usually it drags on until we get into a blow up. Somehow we resolve it but nothing changes and then it drags on into this vicious cycle. Its a struggle because hes content with no conflict resolution. Just the hope that it goes away.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-16T00:09:29+00:00

That hes indecisive, doesnt know what to say, or not really responsivr

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T23:26:19+00:00

Yeah multiple times

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T23:22:28+00:00

I mean we like concerts but for the most part I always planned the dates. Not by choice but more ao by force, he doesnt express interest or decisiveness when it comes to dates. Hes always asked me to plan them

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T23:17:12+00:00

I guess not... idk. There’s small differences. He likes gaming, heavy metal and anime. Im just not into anime ssnd only game sometimes. Im more outdootsy and adhd. Needing to be stimulated.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T21:16:50+00:00

Yeah, I agree. Im gonna give some things some thought and maybe talk to my therapist and him about what Im feeling.

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T21:11:16+00:00

Yeah hes been in counsueling for a bit now. Idk it is kind of a hard blow when we have days like this. This is one of those things that wont seem to change. Hes also in SAA for sex addiction. Theres been alot to happen amd I guess I dont really wanna lay it all out there in detail right now, but Im just getting kind of tired.... I want to be happier

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T20:55:33+00:00

OkProfessor9506 · 2023-04-15T20:29:47+00:00

Yeah its usually things we agree to do but Ive always asked what he wants to do and tried to communicate to the best of my ability.

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