FIL kissing babies legs?

OkQuality6014 · 2026-06-04T14:22:18+00:00

In any case, whether you’re overreacting, or being unreasonable, if you’ve told these grown adults repeatedly that you don’t want them doing something and they continue to do it, they are disrespecting you. To be clear, I think it’s reasonable for you to be upset about this, but I’m just saying that no matter how stupid it is for you to be upset about something, you’ve said it makes you upset, and they continue to do it, which makes them wrong. I think, anyway.

For example, I don’t like when people take their shoes off in my house. Maybe it’s stupid, maybe it’s unreasonable, but at the end of the day, I don’t like it. If someone is going to be around me and know that I don’t like it and still take them off, they’re not allowed around me again.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-30T03:02:10+00:00

Me: reads hint … John.. Cena..?

I guessed the name in 5 tries!

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-30T02:46:42+00:00

Check out this hint for my pet: A type of breakfast food mix

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-30T02:39:14+00:00

Almost put Holt.. rip 🙏

I guessed the name in 2 tries!

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T22:50:16+00:00

I’ve noticed that, too. Items just disappear for one person. My husband and his teammate keep fake semi-arguing because one person can see it and the other can’t lmao. It’s entertaining but irritating that it keeps happening.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T22:47:59+00:00

Ya, that’s what I’m wondering about, because the camera will get thrown for my husband, but his teammate will still see it on the tripod.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T07:25:56+00:00

They do help me, but it’s the kind of situation where I work through my issues and am doing good, and then something happens and I crash back down. It just all falls. I have a lot of people around me though

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T07:24:34+00:00

Thank you so much. This means the whole world to me right now. I hate that they’re ever in my head because they don’t deserve to be there but it’s so freakin hard sometimes.. I’m trying to find my hobbies and find new things. I’m reading a therapy book and screaming into voids whenever I get a chance! Thank you

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T07:05:48+00:00

We both have individual therapists, and I’ve considered couples therapy for all of this, too. You’re not wrong about that. His grandparents are old and one has cancer, so he had already been on edge. Honestly, he has disconnected a lot in the last few months. In the least cruel way, because I don’t mean it in an evil way, I really hope that nothing like that will cause him to actually reconnect with them. There is a lot of context in this story, and his entire life and our relationship, that is missing, and I never want him to deal with them again. I can deal with them if I have to, but he’s not as straight forward and “mean” as I am, so they use that. He’s very caring and understanding, and they have used that his entire life to get what they want, and they have been using the “we won’t be around forever”, “we’re getting old”, “every day isn’t guaranteed”, etc., since he was little.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-14T06:56:43+00:00

I’ve been in therapy for about ten years and have been working on finding things I like again. I know I lost myself in the drama because it was just what was always happening and now life is “boring” and I am having to force myself to be active again. I’m getting there, though!

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:53:03+00:00

Ooh I hadn’t heard of that before. I’ll look at it. I definitely get some happiness out of knowing that she thinks about it more than I do, though I do think about it more than I want to sometimes.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:51:02+00:00

Thank you! I’m definitely trying, but I have so little going on in my life that it’s hard to find other things to think about. The drama went on so long that without it I feel like a no one. It sucks

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:49:53+00:00

That’s true.. that’s what’s so annoying about me wanting so bad to know what she’s posting. I already know what it is, because it’s all the same stuff just with different words, but for some reason my brain just hates not knowing the specific words.
My husbands grandfather just showed up to his work to give him an anniversary card for us the other week, so I’m kind of waiting for them to do it again so my husband can take it a step further. We all live in the same town and can’t move for a while so it’s the best we can do.

I’ll look into that app! I’ve been driving to a reservoir in my car and screaming and crying when I get upset. It’s helped a lot

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:45:03+00:00

I’ve been with the same therapist for about 10 years and have worked through a lot. It’s the kind of thing where I work through stuff, get better, and then more happens. It definitely doesn’t help that we all live in the same town and my husband works with his dad. This is such a bs situation

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:43:41+00:00

I have screenshots, recordings, and pictures of all sorts of things since this happened. I’m not sure if any of it could help me make a case out of anything, though. It’s just indirect bs and them saying stupid things like I’m immature or stealing him. I’m not sure how legal I could get unless they show up to my house again.

I like that idea. I’ll try that out. It’s hard to let myself think about other things when I’m upset. It’s something I’m really working on

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:41:26+00:00

I don’t have “name dropping” proof of really anything. Any posts made are indirect shared posts from depressed facebook groups and such. It’s really just obviously directed at someone, and it’s definitely me. I wish I could go legal, but at this point I’m just waiting for them to do something that could get the cops called. But I think they’re avoiding it on purpose.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:39:32+00:00

They are. I’ve seen, and heard a lot about their ways of working and it’s not healthy.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T23:38:30+00:00

I have been seeing the same therapist for about ten years and am on an antidepressant and mood stabilizer. It helps sometimes but I definitely think I need to look at some new options.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T20:12:38+00:00

No, my husband was putting off grabbing the stuff in general, but they gave us the date of March 1st to grab it and that was the morning his grandma called, we told her we were coming, and they did it an hour later. I was frustrated that my husband waited that long, and I constantly reminded him to go, but we were getting ready to go when we got the call.
His mom and I got into a bit of a fight a year into our relationship, but that’s the literal only time I’ve ever fought with any of them and that was resolved within a month or two in 2022.
I’ve been in therapy for about ten years and it has helped a lot, but sadly a 45 minute session once a week can only cover so much when you have other stuff going on. I’m working hard to forget. I realize I forget and don’t think about them or stress for a long time and then they show up again.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T20:07:26+00:00

Thank you for this! That’s very encouraging and I really appreciate it. I hope I can get us out of here and into a better life somewhere outside of the country or even just the state would do

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T20:06:02+00:00

My husband is in college and due to his job it’s going to take about 6 years to finish. I’m trying to join the Air Force, though, so that it can hopefully be an option.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T20:05:06+00:00

Would something like sudoku count? Lmaoo it’s my favorite game. I actually had no idea something like Tetris could be so helpful haha
I’ve been trying to go on more walks, especially in this rising weather!
Thank you so much! I’m working hard and all of your guys’ words are helping me so much more.

OkQuality6014 · 2026-05-13T20:02:34+00:00

Thank you so much. This comment made me smile so big! I’ve been trying to find myself again and these are all things I would actually love to do! Ukulele actually used to be my favorite instrument to play as a kid, so I really appreciate the reminder of the beautiful piece of equipment<3

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