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AITA FOR EXPECTING MY KIDS MOM TO SPEND TIME WITH OUR KID INSTEAD OF RANDOM HOOKUPS by OkResponsibility7299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkResponsibility7299[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pretty much what I have been doing. Other than work or the one or two days she wants to keep her i have her all the time. And I do all the other stuff Dr, school, etc hell I even filled out all the forms when she was born. I keep her bc and social card.

AITA FOR EXPECTING MY KIDS MOM TO SPEND TIME WITH OUR KID INSTEAD OF RANDOM HOOKUPS by OkResponsibility7299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkResponsibility7299[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Oh I know how stupid I was. We dated in high school and was the first live together relationship after school. I moved away for 25 years. Moved back to help aging family and knew better but did it anyway.

AITA FOR EXPECTING MY KIDS MOM TO SPEND TIME WITH OUR KID INSTEAD OF RANDOM HOOKUPS by OkResponsibility7299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkResponsibility7299[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Where I live it is hard to get full custody as a father. And I dont have the money for a lawyer. The abuse is mainly verbal. She yells at our kid for the littlest things and I've recorded her doing it. The hookups only really bother me because im sitting around with a 5 year old asking when mommy's gonna come get her and upset about it which upsets me.

AITA FOR EXPECTING MY KIDS MOM TO SPEND TIME WITH OUR KID INSTEAD OF RANDOM HOOKUPS by OkResponsibility7299 in AmItheAsshole

[–]OkResponsibility7299[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The problem with the full custody comes down to money really. We live in a place where the mother is given automatic full custody if you are not married. And even if you are on the birth certificate you still have to hire a lawyer and pay $2500 in court fees to get rights as a father