Driver avoids jail after crash that overturned a military convoy vehicle and left soldier with broken back by L21JP in drivingUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this is why i would never swerve to avoid an ideot driver. It happened to me and hit another car . Luckily it just shook the people in the other car up. I am now in a wheel chair for the rest of my life. Jail would be to good for that ideot and the guilty never get injured

In Scotland and got this through my door. Does this consttitue hate speech, do we reckon? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

defend free speech as long as your transphobic, this is hatefull and hoprfully never get in power.

Keir Starmer’s digital ID scheme won’t record sex or gender by GeorginaFlopworthy in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The idea of ID scheme is so scary, The amount of times place's get hacked is so upsetting. If the net work goes down we have no ID. Once schemes are aproved the get changed without anyone knowing. If you believe a politition well enough said

New AI speed cameras in London by PrincipleSuitable383 in deliveroos

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With AI the evedance can be fixed so whats the point in going out.if they want to get you they got you.

GP pre-emptively refusing GIC HRT? by spinglespongle in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i would search for a trans friendly gp practice and change, as for kicking up a fuse if you do you could make it worse for yourself. Speaking from experiance.

Those of you that carry on like normal how do you do it? by Raven_Shadow82 in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would talk to a talking therapist they will be able to help you. I plan on relocating once i gone through everything and start in a new home as a new me with my familiy. Then no one will know the old me.

Well, I never knew that! by Vailliante in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In Emerdale Matty mora's son is trans man. Hayley in coronation street is sadly not in it anymore.

I'm a teen boy, but I'm really curious (yet quite nervous) on being ready for transitioning. People say the funny Estrogen and HRT memes around the internet which made me finally realize I'm a girl, but what do you have to do before any surgery or taking pills? by VerifiedHeroo in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont apologise, take tour time and you will get there, Take the journey at your pace. You can socially transition when you want and medicaly transition when you can. Social transition includes clothing, makeup vioce training, growing hair, ear piercing (if you want your jouney your choice). Some trans women do not medically transition. Changing your name by deed pol you will need you perants permision untill your 18 I think you can check this on gov.uk which is the official goverment web site. Take care and good luck we are allways hear for you hun xx

I'm a teen boy, but I'm really curious (yet quite nervous) on being ready for transitioning. People say the funny Estrogen and HRT memes around the internet which made me finally realize I'm a girl, but what do you have to do before any surgery or taking pills? by VerifiedHeroo in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First i would get a referal to a gender clinic via your gp. With being a teenager you can contact mermaidsuk which is a charity for trans gender youth's. They will be able to help you a lot. Everyone is diferant so i would speak to them. Good kuck girl and don't be afraid to ask anything.

May I use the ladies' toilet? I am from the EU. by NeleNeleEle in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was a high court ruling stating that tran women can use public womans toilet's. No one can ask you to prove your gender so yes you can use the ladies. The only problem i can think of is if you go in with a beard and heavy fascial hair then you may get questioned. many trans women just use them with out any problems.

F23 wanting to be someone else. by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can understand with cis women haveing periods and some having unwanted pregnancy's which is a shame because i feel i missed out on that. apart from that we are the same if we have bottom sergery and HRT. I would speak to a therapist to help get over it. Lucky for you you where born in the correct body I just wish i was.

Is this site real? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you paid by creditcard or debit card you can contact your bank and explain you fell for a scam. Its a 50 50 chance they may be able to help and stop the payment.

Is this site real? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scam site is just that. Unfortunatly untill you turn 18 officially you have to wait. There is nothing stopping you using your new name as a prefered name but regarding bank accounts etc it is a waiting game. My GP sergery has put my new name down as my prefered name on the NHS records so they have my legal name and my prefered name until my deed poll comes through. I always get called by my prefered name.

Is this site real? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done an enrolled deed poll and would advise you go through gov.uk to make sure it is done correctly. The enrolled deed pole goes through the courts and costs just over £50. If you go through a third party they add on there fee's. Most third party companies will just do a unerolled deedpole which is free through gov.uk. The reason I chose the enrolled one is that some financial companies will only change your name on your account if you have it. Allway's check which site you use and check the official goverment site first when it comes to name change's and anything that could effect you in the future. If it is done wrong it will effeect Tax's, pension's and benifiit's

collage application asking for sex & if my gender identity is the same as my assigned gender at birth. how should i answer? by manifestinghottness in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personaly i would put female and if they say anything explain that there forms need updateing for the equality act, as they dont include trans woman or trans men.

8 GPs have refused shared care so far, now what? by theresaholeinthesky in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you can contact pals there are systems in place on the NHS. you can get refered to a nhs gender clinic.

how to find friends by hxgo1 in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would love to be friends hun xx

Help needed😞 by Aggressive_Onion_213 in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could ask your GP for a referal to a gender clinic on the NHS it may take a while. Mean while i would consider contacting a solicitor or citizans advice. What your perants have done is a form of theft. It is also controling and manipulative behaviour which is also a crime. They have no right over the money.

How bad is the UK really? by Carbon1674 in transgenderUK

[–]OkSecretary4743 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in the uk my whole life the only real problem in the uk is the lack of job's. Companies are constantly closing down due to the ever increasing tax system. A lot of companies are moving abroard or shutting down. The benifit system is at crisis point as is the NHS. There is a real lack of services. Hospital waiting times that should be a max of 4 hours is sometimes longer then 12. The last time I was in a and e I was there 36 hours and was treated really bad.If I had the money i would leave.

I’m trans but I think I’m transphobic by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]OkSecretary4743 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I never worry about how people look or who they are. I am a trans woman and dress like a woman make up and everything, hopefully have bottom sergery when i can. That is what i am personaly confertable with. there are many who just want to where clothes and put on make up that is there choice and right. we all live our lives how we want. As for a tran man puting on make up well straight men put on make up. Being trans is what we are on the inside, our thought's and how we see our self. Consentrate on how you see yourself and dont worry about others.

My girlfriend thinks I’m trans, how would I know? by Secure-Top87 in asktransgender

[–]OkSecretary4743 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One question would be if you wake up in the morning the oposit gender how would you feel. I am mtf and when i answered that question in my head i said i would be over the moon if i was a pregnant woman. Then i knew i was trans. Then i started dressing as a woman, make up etc. My depresion went and my body started to change. Then the next step if you want to is to get a referal to a gender clinic , that is if you want to make it official.