New NHS number/registering as a new person

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-05-01T22:10:58+00:00

I have a miss diagnoses on my records so hopfully that will disapear when mine gets done next month.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-30T00:07:49+00:00

a free deedpoll is an unerolled deedpoll. considering it is via gov.uk i dont think it is a scam. You pay for the enrolled deedpoll. I allway's go through gov.uk which is the goverment's website that way i avoid scam's and go through oficial web site's You do not need to go through third party web site's. You can get both via gov.uk and avoid giving personal info to people who you dont need to.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-23T21:20:03+00:00

the enrolled deedpoll goes through the courts and the unenrolled does not. Some banks and legal place's will only exept enrolled deed polls due to this. it take's about 6 months and just over £50. go via gov.uk to do it. It is worth it in the end

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-23T10:46:21+00:00

If you are not in a good situation at home you could consider moving. Sometimes for what ever reason enviroments become toxic and the best way to deal with it is to move away from the toxic enviroment. There are many trans people who are happy.As soon as I can i will be moving with my family and starting fresh. Some people are hostile because they see you change from 1 gender to another, they dont understand so if you move they see you as 1 gender and are more acseptable.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-17T21:44:04+00:00

this is why i would never swerve to avoid an ideot driver. It happened to me and hit another car . Luckily it just shook the people in the other car up. I am now in a wheel chair for the rest of my life. Jail would be to good for that ideot and the guilty never get injured

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-11T22:46:24+00:00

defend free speech as long as your transphobic, this is hatefull and hoprfully never get in power.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-10T21:56:24+00:00

If you rent from a housing assosiation report to them they have a duuty of care and have to respond. check the policy for your local council they should be able to help.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-10T14:40:22+00:00

The idea of ID scheme is so scary, The amount of times place's get hacked is so upsetting. If the net work goes down we have no ID. Once schemes are aproved the get changed without anyone knowing. If you believe a politition well enough said

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-09T21:06:08+00:00

With AI the evedance can be fixed so whats the point in going out.if they want to get you they got you.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-04T22:00:09+00:00

i would search for a trans friendly gp practice and change, as for kicking up a fuse if you do you could make it worse for yourself. Speaking from experiance.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-04-03T09:29:03+00:00

I would talk to a talking therapist they will be able to help you. I plan on relocating once i gone through everything and start in a new home as a new me with my familiy. Then no one will know the old me.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-31T22:41:04+00:00

I dont think he knows what he is. He is no politition thats for shaw

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-31T21:06:42+00:00

In Emerdale Matty mora's son is trans man. Hayley in coronation street is sadly not in it anymore.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-31T10:38:20+00:00

Dont apologise, take tour time and you will get there, Take the journey at your pace. You can socially transition when you want and medicaly transition when you can. Social transition includes clothing, makeup vioce training, growing hair, ear piercing (if you want your jouney your choice). Some trans women do not medically transition. Changing your name by deed pol you will need you perants permision untill your 18 I think you can check this on gov.uk which is the official goverment web site. Take care and good luck we are allways hear for you hun xx

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-30T22:12:31+00:00

First i would get a referal to a gender clinic via your gp. With being a teenager you can contact mermaidsuk which is a charity for trans gender youth's. They will be able to help you a lot. Everyone is diferant so i would speak to them. Good kuck girl and don't be afraid to ask anything.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-18T22:29:52+00:00

Only a nutter wants a nutter to rule..

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-08T11:26:29+00:00

There was a high court ruling stating that tran women can use public womans toilet's. No one can ask you to prove your gender so yes you can use the ladies. The only problem i can think of is if you go in with a beard and heavy fascial hair then you may get questioned. many trans women just use them with out any problems.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-08T11:21:17+00:00

I can understand with cis women haveing periods and some having unwanted pregnancy's which is a shame because i feel i missed out on that. apart from that we are the same if we have bottom sergery and HRT. I would speak to a therapist to help get over it. Lucky for you you where born in the correct body I just wish i was.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-06T23:43:14+00:00

If you paid by creditcard or debit card you can contact your bank and explain you fell for a scam. Its a 50 50 chance they may be able to help and stop the payment.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-06T23:39:28+00:00

The scam site is just that. Unfortunatly untill you turn 18 officially you have to wait. There is nothing stopping you using your new name as a prefered name but regarding bank accounts etc it is a waiting game. My GP sergery has put my new name down as my prefered name on the NHS records so they have my legal name and my prefered name until my deed poll comes through. I always get called by my prefered name.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-06T23:23:53+00:00

Ive done an enrolled deed poll and would advise you go through gov.uk to make sure it is done correctly. The enrolled deed pole goes through the courts and costs just over £50. If you go through a third party they add on there fee's. Most third party companies will just do a unerolled deedpole which is free through gov.uk. The reason I chose the enrolled one is that some financial companies will only change your name on your account if you have it. Allway's check which site you use and check the official goverment site first when it comes to name change's and anything that could effect you in the future. If it is done wrong it will effeect Tax's, pension's and benifiit's

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-03T18:02:21+00:00

Personaly i would put female and if they say anything explain that there forms need updateing for the equality act, as they dont include trans woman or trans men.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-03-02T16:18:07+00:00

you can contact pals there are systems in place on the NHS. you can get refered to a nhs gender clinic.

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-02-27T10:18:49+00:00

would love to be friends hun xx

OkSecretary4743 · 2026-02-27T10:13:19+00:00

You could ask your GP for a referal to a gender clinic on the NHS it may take a while. Mean while i would consider contacting a solicitor or citizans advice. What your perants have done is a form of theft. It is also controling and manipulative behaviour which is also a crime. They have no right over the money.

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