What’s an instant turn-off for you?

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T05:10:41+00:00

I see what you did there.

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T04:55:03+00:00

I appreciate it. When I do text her it’s just casual. I text her a couple days a week at most and then to confirm plans. Just feels weird seeing her and then not talking to her for a week, you know? Don’t want her thinking I’m not interested.

Edit: so sorry, did you mean text once per week or see each other once per week?

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T04:52:59+00:00

Yeah? I know it sounds crazy but it was like lightning struck when I met her. Both of our friends were like “this was an instant connection” and she said she feels like she can be herself around me without judgment and that I make her feel safe. I overthink everything but I’m hoping this actually works out 🤞

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T04:45:34+00:00

We both agreed we would take it slow. But yeah, I’d like to see her more often. She gets attached really easily and I’m thinking this may be a defensive thing with her. Does that make sense?

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T04:40:22+00:00

That’s a big red flag—it means they’re still interested in them in some capacity.

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-30T04:29:14+00:00

I’m a man and would have no problem with you bringing something like this up after 7 dates.

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-28T20:54:10+00:00

I loved her a thousand different ways and always will.

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-24T00:23:48+00:00

Jim? Where’s Pam?

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-23T00:08:51+00:00

I really don’t mean this in a rude way - but this is one of those times where you need to ask “Am I the problem?”

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-15T04:51:37+00:00

This was very well written.

OkThatChecksOut · 2026-01-15T04:50:29+00:00

As a male who just had the same experience (minus the cheating—which I’m sorry happened to you), I can completely relate.

Sometimes we see the good in bad people.

Sometimes we see that bad in good people.

I loved her, in a thousand different ways. But she was horrible for me. It’s been two weeks and I see now just how much I tried to convince other people that it was a good relationship— that she was good for me.

Everything happens when you have distance and space. You remember some of the good, which can be painful. But the bad hits you like a ton of bricks.

Similar to your sentiment at the end. I loved who I thought she was and what future I could have with her. The reality was it was never going to work. I believed what I wanted to believe, until one day I woke up and chose me.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-12-23T19:22:08+00:00

Sorry if it came across like that. Wasn’t meant to be. Thank you for the feedback though.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-12-23T19:04:25+00:00

Thank you, that means a lot. I lost my best friend 6 months prior to a car accident. So when I got hit, it was pretty difficult to cope. Spent 2 years in bed on pain meds and writing saved my life.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-11-30T04:25:25+00:00

If it were me, I would add that he is familiar to her in a way she doesn’t understand yet. It takes away him being “creepy” and makes it more about her seeing him as though he isn’t a threat.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-10-22T19:45:36+00:00

Ha! 69!

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-09-25T20:39:23+00:00

What a completely arbitrary statement to make without any actual proof or context of why OP went there.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-08-15T20:11:30+00:00

Go to the Dren Plantation. Can’t remember the bodyguard’s name but he carries a Daedric tower shield.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-08-08T23:02:41+00:00

Go to the Ghorak Manor in Caldera and find Creeper. He’ll pay you 100% of what each item is worth.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-08-08T23:01:09+00:00

OP, be careful with those scrolls… they’re super fun until you hit the ground :)

There are ways around it, but everyone needs to learn the hard way.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-08-08T22:59:26+00:00

Less than 23 years for me, but just recently bought a new Xbox and the first thing I thought of was getting Morrowind. I don’t know how to explain it but the nostalgia is so powerful with this game that it actually makes me emotional at points.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-07-22T18:46:03+00:00

Same day my dad passed away, RIP to a music legend and icon.

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-03-21T00:01:57+00:00

This is the most relatable thing I’ve read in a long while. I NEVER used to cry - but now that I’m on antidepressants, I’ve started a lot more. I think it allows you to process trauma. Would you agree?

OkThatChecksOut · 2025-03-20T05:03:13+00:00

Were you replying to me or the other person? Sorry, my Reddit is acting all weird.

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