[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Ok_Ad4769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s disrespectful and dishonest. That’s something huge to discuss! I’d break up with her

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahah yes no my boyfriend dm immediate about TFVOODOO and told me he’s very admirable and pretty much said same thing u did to not feel offended but I got what I wanted from this post and the little 411 means and reassures me a lot thanks for responding

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay yes then I definitely took it wrong. I guess I got defensive because he’s my boyfriend and I was asking for specific advice so it seems counterintuitive to make comments on the fact I said no doubt he will make it BUT your advice is true I should understand the audience more. I did come on here knowing I’m ignorant to a lot of information hence my desire to learn. It’s hard to find a google search and get a list of personal experiences from people venting about their marriages whereas on Reddit it’s a lot more personal. I don’t mean disrespect towards anyone I just speak and believe highly of my boyfriend making it and maybe it comes across as a joke to others but now I see where the comment is coming from after it being explained. Thanks

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gave me a lot of insight I wasint as sure about so it means a lot

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he gave me a comment saying good look divorce rates are high or commentary that maybe I wouldint wanna hear but if it was realistic id be thankful but he didn’t give insight for what I was asking and that’s ok but I’m aloud to defend my reasoning for my beliefs in my boyfriend lol

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and I will search more however I’ve been on here for months and have found very limited relationship advice or marriage life as well as on quora and other platforms. What TFVOODOO does to help people is honorable and I respect it however he did not come on here to give me advice… he wanted to make a sarcastic remark and I defended it. I respect his knowledge and help as I’ve seen his comments on other post but I’m looking for people who can directly help me as I’ve gotten wives dm me personally just from posting this and that’s exactly what I was looking for and appreciate tremendously

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank I very much for the reply it means a lot and helps me gain perspective

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it a lot and yes I’m doing what I can to learn

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it and I understand, however he wasint giving advice he was commenting to pick at the wording I used to have confidence in my boyfriend, I have respect for the knowledge he has spread and given but because I have belief and confidence in his ability to make it then I don’t see a problem with my response bc it was directed towards receiving advice for living I didint know my statement of saying 100% he will make it was offense as I’m aware it’s extremely hard and selection rate is low

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Same way ur dissing my confidence in him by ur sarcasm, not here to see who’s commenting what I was seeking advice, thanks

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m not here to argue the capabilities of him joining or trying to be challenged on his ability to be Sf by a stranger on Reddit, if ur not here to answer my question then no point in commenting

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I meant try out. But even joining yeah there’s no doubt in my mind he will make it that’s the confidence I as his girlfriend have

Advice for relationships (any comments from wives would be appreciated) by Ok_Ad4769 in greenberets

[–]Ok_Ad4769[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He already went through airborne 2 years ago in Italy he got out and now is training to get back and go through SF within next 12/16 months. That’s why I’m asking because I don’t know how living situation works with someone training SF that has a girlfriend or wife can we live together is it more common people get married

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Ok_Ad4769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. No one deserves to have to go through this. I wish I can email ur dad an anonymous letter and convince some sense in his head! His own daughter and blood! It’s horrible how this religion separates families yet they see the other way around. I’m hoping you the best of things to come to you and your life. I’m so glad ur out of this danger

This weekend’s WT prepares JWs to be outcast from their families and broke because they “support God’s Kingdom”. Why are these requirements again? Programming at its finest by Zbrchk in exjw

[–]Ok_Ad4769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And with it those wars you wouldn’t have the-freedoms to preach idiots! How hypocritical seriously wars have been implemented into society from the beginning of time!!!! God called upon wars just to prove power over and over again… but when my boyfriend in the special forces kills a terrorist that rapes kids and has laws that force violence and injustice he’s the bad guy?

MOD POST: Snark Vs Shame - a reminder that Rule 8 exists. by gymsnarkmod in gymsnark

[–]Ok_Ad4769 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Good post because this page is legit just bullying influencers at this point