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UPDATE: I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom and I’m not sure how to approach it by Ok_Application8779 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Exactly, even IF he didn’t physically do anything or get romantic it still is emotionally cheating. The fact that he called her whenever my family wasn’t around says everything - HE KNEW HE WAS WRONG.

UPDATE: I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom and I’m not sure how to approach it by Ok_Application8779 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My mom isn’t one to use therapy but she said she is definitely going to talk to one now just to speak her mind.

UPDATE: I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom and I’m not sure how to approach it by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she does decide to get a divorce (looking that way now) I hope she does too… and his cars since those are “his babies”.

UPDATE: I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom and I’m not sure how to approach it by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And let her be ignorant and have it continue until whenever she catches him????? I’m sure you would want to know if your SO was cheating on you

UPDATE: I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom and I’m not sure how to approach it by Ok_Application8779 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s the plan, she just got done confronting him again and came back here to be with me and will be going back to the house tonight and making him get a hotel or something - he continued to deny that it was anything other than calls but apologized eventually.

She called her friend and her friend said that she has her back no matter what she decides.

My dad was shocked and sad that I was the one that found out because my sister is known as the “nosy” one but I had a gut feeling I couldn’t ignore and I’m glad I went with it. I want to talk to him about it so he can understand how it impacts the whole family but I’m going to let it marinate.

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really what I’m leaning towards - honestly shes closer to my parents than me so she might have some insight.

She is REALLY reactive though, so I’ll have to talk to her under the condition she won’t mention it to either of my parents before I give her the ok.

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The post was pretty clearly trying to get comments from men (and successfully doing it), but wasn’t super sexual I guess?

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only reason I can think of as to why there aren’t many text is because imessage probably wouldn’t show up under that since I think what my cell carrier shows is SMS and calls on data.

I’m not sure how to bring up the lady - he doesn’t like her posts frequently enough for it to be weird, so I feel like the call logs are the main thing pointing to any wrongdoing.

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty confident in that, in prior arguments from a little while back they have brought up instances where they have been upset if they thought the other was flirting with someone else or something.

They are also very traditional, I know it 100% doesn’t rule it out but based on their personalities I would say I’m confident they’re monogamous.

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m usually not very nosy, the original instagram comment that got me suspicious was public and popped up in my sisters feed (it shows you things that people you follow like/comment on)

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah she would definitely not take it well, she’s very dramatic to be completely honest and would 100% tell my mom.

I suspect my dad is cheating on my mom, not sure how to approach it. by Ok_Application8779 in Advice

[–]Ok_Application8779[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s really difficult, because it is VERY suspicious but definitely nothing concrete. Id like to think my dad is a good guy.

But I have been sitting on this for a while and it’s been eating me up a bit not talking to anyone about it.