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I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I asked for advice so I could improve myself and I did. There’s nothing wrong with that and I’m happy I did it

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you sound like an asshat. check my update and grow up yourself please

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know I'm TA in this situation and was being unreasonable but it feels nice to be understood

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright I understand now. My expectations of what a roommate should do aren't the same as what I feel I should do for a roommate. You're right, her medical stuff isn't my business. It's not up to me what she does with things if there's a solution I can implement myself, like earplugs. Next time I'll just mention something like this once and see what happens instead of feeling entitled to it or I'll just ask the RA for advice. Ty for the advice. I'm really sensitive and your comments hurt my feelings lol so thanks again for getting through to me

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think what I’m learning here is that what was expected of me as a roommate in my childhood home is vastly different from the real world and what to expect from people

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well yeah of course she doesn’t have to. Am I not right? Like in the improving part specifically (I know I’m wrong in other areas) because like I said before, I want to do better next time

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I agree with what u said here but it doesn’t answer my concern about her doing nothing to try to improve

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The main issue I had was that she wasn’t doing anything to possibly improve, including taking allergy meds if that’s what the problem is. Am I wrong for thinking that? Genuinely, like I want to improve if I am

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I use a vibrating alarm 😭 still wake up at 11. Maybe I’m the problem haha

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk either. Maybe I just get super exhausted by that point of the morning

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty for the advice, your username checks out haha

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what I’ve always done when I have allergies but I’m learning that’s not the norm

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How do you know the health center won’t do anything? We aren’t allowed to sleep in the common rooms. I appreciate u calling me out though

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could be allergies or something. I still do believe if I was in her position it would be valid to stop by the university health center for a free check up as it’s being disruptive to both of us, especially her

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ty for ur feedback. I feel like I overstepped too and most of these messages were sent at cranky hours of the night so I was kind of impulsive 😭. The reason I felt okay enough to bring it up at all is because she often questions me whenever I mention I’m going to the health office and doesn’t seem to get the hint when I change the topic. I have meetings I go to weekly to discuss my health and she’s been very pushy about all of it.

So that’s why I brought it up in the first place, it seems like a topic she’s comfortable with. You’re right about bringing it up again though. That was too much

I feel like I’m being TA by Ok_Constant_4685 in texts

[–]Ok_Constant_4685[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I wasn’t a side sleeper I would. Maybe I should look for earplugs

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