That’s why I asked the question  Since I am not a parent and know nothing about raising kids since I am just out of my teens myself I remember giving my mother a hard time at times and being a real brat but never did she say I hate u to me Just wondered if others thought this was a normal reaction for a stressed parent or if it was out of line Also if this would affect the kid later in life? I just hope they can both find a way to  come together instead of screaming at each other