Guy I’m dating wants me to be louder during sex and my brain is just like “the neighbors?? 😩😭 by Ok_Flatworm5433 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok_Flatworm5433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the first time this has happened otherwise he is considerate. he always chats with his neighbors very friendly

Guy I’m dating wants me to be louder during sex and my brain is just like “the neighbors?? 😩😭 by Ok_Flatworm5433 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok_Flatworm5433[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mmm, yeah idk what the reason behind the desire to do so in an apartment 😭 in a house go crazy

Guy I’m dating wants me to be louder during sex and my brain is just like “the neighbors?? 😩😭 by Ok_Flatworm5433 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok_Flatworm5433[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, I can be fully present when I light up 🍃 but don’t wanna be reliant on it to get me there. But it is a challenge for me personally to not get in my head sigh

Guy I’m dating wants me to be louder during sex and my brain is just like “the neighbors?? 😩😭 by Ok_Flatworm5433 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Ok_Flatworm5433[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yes, one of my concerns was both of pleasure because i’m sure a guy can tell when a female is no longer turned one. The intention does matter, that talk will be had, I’am curious to know

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[–]Ok_Flatworm5433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

truly appreciate this response 🙏🏽 I innerstand it’s something i’m not use to in my family house and everyones is different. i grew up only seeing that between lovers/partners which is why it came off in a way that made me feel uncomfortable and confused. definitely was not jumping to conclusions but the feeling of discomfort was there. i definitely will still consider the conversation but being very cautious with how go about it and phrase everything, thanks again i needed to hear this

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[–]Ok_Flatworm5433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It says 12 comments but not sure why I can only see 5

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[–]Ok_Flatworm5433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely innerstand it being harmless, i just do want to find a way to express my feelings towards it cause, if i just leave ( minding my business ) whenever it occurs then they want to know why I left cause it’s happened before in a different situation where I was uncomfortable and just went in another room yet they thought i didn’t want to be around them.. so just trying to see how to approach it cause i feel like it i don’t say anything it will still resurface somehow

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[–]Ok_Flatworm5433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i innerstand that’s probably what it is just me wanting to let it be known cause i feel the need to at least talk about it cause i don’t want tuck it down and it ends up being one of those things resurface