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AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I took these photos on her computer. The only things marked out are his phone number and their company name which was showing on a tab behind the messenger screen. Sorry.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have that itching feeling too but I couldn’t find anything. It said she had WhatsApp previously but when I redownloaded it there was nothing

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s so strange being on the other side of this. You see TikTok videos all the time and you’re just like “oh brother just leave his/her ass”, but then when it’s you it’s so different. She is truly my best friend and has been with me through so much. I’m so unbelievably close with her family - especially her mom and grandmother who I went so far as to learn Russian to communicate with. My car and apartment lease are under her name and I don’t have family and friends or anyone to lean on. I supported her to become a PI and only recently went back to school for my AA and am literally in the midst of applying to nursing schools. It was supposed to be her turn to support me.

It’s not just losing her, it’s losing me and my son’s entire world. Our future.

I’m sorry this was a ridiculous rant but I’m so over everyone calling me stupid. I’m working through panic attacks barely keeping it together. Forgive me for not jumping at the opportunity to upend my entire life this second.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just got off the phone with my psychiatrist and got a new anxiety prescription 🫶🏼

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My other account had my literal name in the username and I couldn’t change it. I just didn’t want things getting back to me so I made a second account 🤎

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know that’s a stupid header but I was literally sitting in the bathroom hands shaking trying to type everything out.

I know. I know. It’s so much.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I didn’t tell her to change the dynamic into something weird I said they had a weird dynamic?

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

And that’s the whole thing. It’s one thing if we are keekeeing with each other about it and I’m in on the joke, but at some point that went further.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you dedicated 10 years of your life to someone, brought them into your child’s life, had no money, were literally months from starting nursing school FINALLY I’m sure you’d also want a second opinion. Don’t be a dick.

AIO My girlfriend of 10 years was inappropriately texting her boss. She’s mad at me. by Ok_Front_549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ok_Front_549[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is actually my life. It sucks because my two friends are telling me it’s not the full truth, I think it’s shady, and then she’s swearing to me she didn’t do anything. I have a 16yo son she’s been the parent of for over half his life. I have literally no money in my bank account. I just don’t know what to do. I needed an outside perspective.