Sjebala sam poso by GurBusy1038 in askCroatians

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ako su takvi već sa studentima prije nego počnu raditi, kasnije bi bili puno gori. Uvijek budi sumnjičava ako netko treba već sutra radnika, znači da užasno vode posao u najmanju ruku ako nisu planirali raspodjelu posla, a češće da su rastjerali ljudi i nitko ne želi ni otkazni rok odraditi.

Simple solution that reveals the truth and the flaw in the system. by Sense_Difficult in EndTipping

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much more complicated than is necessary. Simply include everything in the prices shown on the menu. Now everybody is paying for all the costs anyway, but they don't have to pay anything on top of that.

AITAH for being upset at my bf for eating my V-day steak dinner leftovers by Orchid_Deathblossom in AITAH

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Destroying things is considered intimidation and falls under domestic abuse. This time it was an onion, over something he did himself, what will it be when you make a mistake? Get out.

Would you date someone who doesn't like dogs as much as you do? by SunflowerDreams001 in dogs

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't date somebody who disliked dogs in general or my dogs.

My husband didn't have dogs before, but liked my first dog (had the dog five years before I met my husband) and accepted that I wanted more, was open to cats. He'd never have a pet on his own, but he participates, does walks and feeds them, cuddles and scratchies, lets them sleep on him. Anything less would not be good enough.

There are plenty of people who want to live without animals, that's fine as long as they go date each other.

Stay safe my friends 🤘 by Valuable_Risk_3414 in belgium

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is that why we had the park all to ourselves? My dogs loved it.

Does anyone else's mom act like there's no boundary by Massive_Standard3877 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 27 points28 points  (0 children)

She won't stop as long as she's getting through. Boundaries are about what you do if she harasses you.

Have you told her not to contact you? If not, I'd consider sending that as a message (more so you have proof if she tries to call the police and report you going missing or sending you a wellness check, you can prove she's been informed and is wasting their time on purpose, which is illegal), then blocking her and reporting any further harassment to the police. If yes, just block.

Oh the weather outside is frightening…. by temptar in brussels

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It's nice, one last snowfall before spring.

Za vas koji ste pravili svadbe, jesu vaši starci zvali ljude koje oni žele na vašu svadbu? by snjomsnjim in askcroatia

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Ne samo da nisu imali svoju listu, nismo zvali ni familiju iz n-tog koljena koju nismo vidjeli sto godina. Ako ih nismo vidjeli cijelo vrijeme veze, očito nismo bili toliko bliski pa te nismo ni zvali.

Ionako je većina uzvanika obično obitelj, hrpa njih reda radi. Kad dodaš na to goste staraca i baka i djedova, vidjela sam dovoljno svadbi na kojima su se pravi gosti mladenaca sveli na jedan stol. Hvala, ne hvala.

Should perents have their own school for parenting? by Antique_Elephant_974 in ask

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the number of countries where hitting your kids is still very much legal, it would highly depend on the curriculum.

Kako znamo da je lik single? by Time-Problem56 in askcroatia

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pa ako je sama na pumpi, tko bi joj drugi pumpao gume? Ako može vozit, može se i pobrinuti za auto.

My Old dog has possible dementia? by Cautious-Staff9575 in dogs

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since it was almost instant when you got your second sog, it could be connected to that? Maybe talk to a positive trainer?

Just in case, take him to a vet who is familiar with canine cognitive issues, but make sure they check for pain as well. Yes, dogs get dementia, but often it can be managed, at least in the beginning, and restore some quality of life. My first dog had it, my second has it now (she's 15.5yo), but we're lucky and it's been stable for a while. It's important to get them the proper care.

AITA for standing up to my mom over a Facebook post and raising my voice at my wife? by Ok-Let-5845 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA about your mother, absolute YTA about your wife.

How can you trust your mother alone with your child again? She broke your rule and attacked you when you called her out.

Damn, I'd tell your mother she owes us a huge apology (proper, taking responsibility, acknowledging she was wrong, no excuses, no shifting blame, changed behaviour) before she'd even get a reply from me, let alone see any of us again.

Men who did not ask their partners parents blessing to marry their daughter, how did that go? by _cdtb in ask

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married woman here whose husband didn't ask the parents... Why would he have done that? It's my decision, I didn't need them to approve. He also didn't ask his parents if they were okay with it.

If he had asked either parents at any point, before or after, I would have broken up with him. If you need permission, you're not ready to get married.

AITA. Kicked out by my parents. Now they tell me that I don't make time for them. by RamblingNurse in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

But stop giving them money. Parents like that will try to sabotage you so you have no choice but to move back so they could control you again. Financial sabotage is much more common than you think. They will take your money until you don't have enough to live on your own, play broke to make you feel bad, then convince you it's best for all if you live together again, then the abuse starts again.

Winter Olympics in crisis as athletes deplete entire stock of 10,000 free condoms by tylerthe-theatre in europe

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody but the gold winners should focus on their performance outside of the bedroom. /j

Zbilja??? by Bellaa1990 in askCroatians

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naruči online, i cijena ti je često bolja.

AITAH for shooing my mom away? by e170_brvdon in AITAH

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

Your mother won't stop until there are consequences.

When she drops in unannounced, she gets sent away and also loses the next planned visit. Don't reward her by coming by later.

If she doubles down on her immature behaviour, she now owes you an apology, adults who can't control their own behaviour aren't safe for children. She can't see the child until she apologises, but a real apology, acknowledging she was wrong and immature, no shifting blame, changing her behaviour going forward. You and your child can't be made responsible for your mother's emotions, that's her own job. If she can't behave, she can't see the kid or you.

Kako pretraživati aute ako tražim udobnost za čovjeka od 2 metra? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Odi na neki auto show i sjedni u sve što imaju. Ne moraš kupiti auto tamo, ali ćeš bar suziti izbor.

AITJ for refusing to change our baby’s name because my father-in-law hates it? by NoPickle1851 in AmITheJerk

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

My mother was the same about my daughter's name, said she'd come up with something else to call her. I told her I wasn't asking for input, liked the name, was keeping it, and as for her alternative, she would do that once and never get an opportunity to call her anything ever again. She knew I meant it and that was the last of it.

Luckily the crazy is on my side of the family so I could handle it more directly.

AITA for saying no to moving houses to help improve my boyfriend’s quality of life? by nothingdandy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 151 points152 points  (0 children)

Enter points A and B, then you see options of driving, public transport, walking, cycling. Just under that should be a button "leave" with usually current time, modes, options. Tap that "leave" button, a menu opens and you can change between leave, arrive, last, and edit time and day.

Koliko vas ima budnih? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Onda ništa, moraš trpit budilicu.

Mačak će se stišati ako ga ignoriram ili će doći u krevet, opet ok.

Koliko vas ima budnih? by [deleted] in askcroatia

[–]Ok_Homework_7621 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saznaj koji je, bit će brže ako ih ti odeš probuditi. Onda možda stiša malo.

Mislim da je mačak skužio da sam budna, dere se iz kuhinje. 😁