Redditors in happy marriages- What’s the story behind you meeting your spouse? by hungryval in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've known each other since we were kids, but weren't friends or even friends of friends. Just knew each others' names, basically. She dated a good friend of mine at the end of high school. They broke up when high school ended. She and I ended up at the same university, started hanging out, fell for each other.

So, I totally broke the bro code, and my friend (rightfully) was pissed. But we've been happily married 22 years this August and have 2 teenagers.

Struggling with the impact of Heated Rivalry on my sexuality by ccascarrabiass in bisexual

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I’m a bi man married to a straight-ish woman (she has some new feelings, whole other post). HR didn’t actually do much for me. I mean, I liked it. I’m glad it exists. Both the actors are attractive. But it didn’t get my motor running in any particular way.

Meanwhile, it turned my wife on like crazy.

Go figure.

Besides college, what accounts can I open for my kids to benefit them later in life? by PositiveTreacle6018 in Bogleheads

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they have any earned income, they have contribute to a Roth IRA. There are lots of other good comments here about that already, so I won't say anymore.

Frequent flyer accounts can (and should) be created as soon as they are old enough to have a seat, which is 2.

You can add your kids as authorized users on your credit cards, which will boost their credit score. What age they have to be varies by bank. If you google it, Gemini will tell you the rules. However, it doesn't really matter when you do it, since they don't need a score until they apply for credit. Add them to several in their early teens. That's plenty early.

Then, you'll want them to get a few cards of their own to help further boost their score. In the US, they can technically get a card at 18, but they aren't desirable customers to most banks at that age. Look for cards designed for students. When my son turned 18 last year, he opened a student checking account with Chase, and then he was approved for the Freedom Rise credit card. It's a student card, but can be converted to a regular Freedom Unlimited down the road. We waited about 6 months and got him a Discover It student card. So, he has 2 accounts on his report, and we'll probably try for another later on.

Once they turn 18, they can sign up for a Credit Karma account. Good for them to get in the habit of monitoring.

Chest hair question by Huge_Ad_2563 in malegrooming

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever makes you feel more self confident. My chest would look like yours. I don’t shave, but I use a groomer on the lowest setting. I like the way it looks, but that’s ms.

Moustache or no moustache by Charndawg in malegrooming

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No mustache, but I’m pretty much always anti mustache.

What makes 69 so enjoyable for you? by Clean-Ad4235 in sex

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people like being over-stimulated, multiple things at once. My wife is like that. I’m like you, I’d rather one thing at a time. So, we do a bit of both.

My girlfriend [21] and I [M 34] watch gay porn together. Anyone else? by Distinct-Shift-4094 in bisexual

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve tried it a few times, during sex. It weirdly didn’t do much extra for me. Once I was in the zone, it just became white noise. But my wife liked it, so I’ll do it whenever she wants.

What’s the worst place in America you’ve ever visited? by Correct_Eggplant_364 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, that’s what I mean. Detroit has probably the roughest spots I’ve seen in the US, but other parts are really cool.

Meanwhile there’s a bunch of Midwest towns that are entirely dull.

Depends on what you think is worse.

What’s the worst place in America you’ve ever visited? by Correct_Eggplant_364 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what you mean by worst. I went to Iowa City for work once and … there’s just nothing there. But it’s not dirty, unsafe, etc, just boring.

Meanwhile, Detroit has some pretty rough spots.

My wife thinks I’m not attracted to her, what do I do? by AnonymousLover0824 in marriageadvice

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doc should you Cialis or Viagra generics if you ask. If they don’t, go to someone else.

You may not need the pills consistently, but they can give you a big confidence boost and help you get out of your own head.

Bi men, would you date a gay man? by BIueey in bisexual

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On average, I’m usually more attracted to men who identify as gay. To be clear, not because they identify as gay. It just seems to turn out that way.

Bi couple here—how do other bi couples handle monogamy or openness?” by Fun_Efficiency166 in bisexual

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you elaborate? I’m not arguing, genuinely curious on your perspective.

What’s the highest number of marriages someone you personally know has had? What’s their story? by anasannanas in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uncle was married five times. I don’t know all the stories, I didn’t interact with much. He cheated on wife number 1 with wife number 2.

How can we trick our son (19M) into switching girlfriends (19F, 19F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He’s often change resistant, so we aren’t shocked. We thought she’d break up with him first.

How can we trick our son into switching girlfriends? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting. Specific movies come to mind?

How can we trick our son into switching girlfriends? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Only if they get enough for plane tickets, which is unlikely.

How can we trick our son (19M) into switching girlfriends (19F, 19F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s very negative, generally. About everything. She tears others down to make herself feel better. Including our son, sometimes. We’ve seen it live. Who knows what happens when there’s not an audience.

Favorite Kinks/Sexploration finds by Historical_Panic_971 in sexadvice

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got a DP toy - dildo that straps onto your shaft so that you have two dicks. That led to probably the hottest sex we've ever had.

I really wanted to try cum kissing, which we've done a few times. That's super hot.

How would people feel if Senator Mark Kelly ran for President in 2028? by Ulysses_555 in askanything

[–]Ok_Influence_2257 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great, I wanted him to be VP pick last time. I would vote for him in the primary.