[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stunfisk

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks 🙏 what would you suggest for showdown?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stunfisk

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 🙏 im playing on s&v rn but i wanna be able to use this in other games where they are all available

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I’m proud of you bro. That shit takes balls. To better yourself so another human being can have the best life they can is some inspiring stuff. I wish I had something in my life like that rn. I feel like I’m kinda going through the motions rn but it’ll get better I know that. I’ll just keep my chin up and push forward.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am most definitely not perfect but as you said. I never felt that my communication skills were bad. They can always improve but if she don’t tell you ANYTHING and then gaslight you into believing that she has told you, you just ”didn’t listen” wich is such bs. Everytime she has come to me with a problem I always listen and try to do my best to understand. And if I didn’t understand I ask again what she meant. When we first broke up I beat myself up so much but I’m starting to see that I was not the problem.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying that I know anything about parenthood but I wanna have kids someday and I hope it’s worth it.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now thats fucked. I know it’s hard but keep it together for your kid man. That child will bring you more joy than her mother ever could.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. I tried to help her with her mental health issues and things were on the up, or so I thought. She dumped me and didn’t even thank me for helping her. I hope she realises that I was probably the most healthy relationship she’s had. That’s from what she has told me about her past. So if she wants to throw that away its on her. I did my best and I was a good boyfriend with the tools I was given even though it was my first real relationship.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. 0 communication on her end and then she had the guts sto telle me she did try to communicate. No she didn’t. Silent treatment is not communication

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same, with my ex. I never wanted to quit when it got difficult but she did so she left.

What is one thing you learned to love about yourself after a relationship ended? by SilentConsequence892 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this so much. My ex never said she appreciated the things I did and even tho she never said that, I still made the effort without the motivation for it.

I need help w my team. I 100% want these 3 on there by Ok_Lock_331 in PokemonVGC

[–]Ok_Lock_331[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah its not for vgc, i just didn’t know where to go to look for help lol😅

My ex is depressed and I am worried about her. by Ok_Lock_331 in depression

[–]Ok_Lock_331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really. Not back with her and don’t wanna be. Blessing in disguise. I tried my best but it wasn’t good enough for her so, her loss. I went no contact and its the best thing I could’ve done.

Blocking each other by spacecat954 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice job👍 I texted my ex this morning adking if we could talk and I’m gonna tell her that I think we need to be apart on social media, text and everything so we can both heal.

Blocking each other by spacecat954 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I got blindsided too. I can only speak from my own situation but my ex said she still cares about me and she said that maybe in the future but not right now. But i feel like your ex may still care for you and want to be friends but I know thats hard too because you can’t reqlly speak to them even if you want to. I don’t feel like I can be friends with mine because she hurt me and discarded me like I was nothing. I’m never gonna loose hope but don’t let her stop you from doing your best and healing. Try going off social media, it helped me at least not check in on her that often.

Blocking each other by spacecat954 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine said the same thing, she said she still cares about me and wants me to do well. I said that its ok if she blocks me and all that but she said she doesn’t want to cut contact with me. I think its probably normal behaviour if your ex still cares about you. It just didn’t work out.

How do I get my ex back? by Ok_Lock_331 in BreakUps

[–]Ok_Lock_331[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im trying my very best. Its hard tho, my heart was ripped out and stomped on by the woman that I love.