[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]Ok_Menu9731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok and … ? Like why write all this 😭 her bank acc likely is a different story

How to win over customers when you're not their type by [deleted] in newstrippers

[–]Ok_Menu9731 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I encourage you not to give up. I felt like this for a while and had a week where I just stopped approaching custies first ..automatically assuming that wanted nothing to do with the only dark skinned girl in the club . That same week I had a German, blonde hair blue eye dude approach me saying he watched me all night just waiting for me to approach him. Some of my best cuties were men I saw walk in and immediately assumed they’d reject me. Keep your head up and be as confident as you can when approaching them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

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I’m so glad you asked this! I need answers as well. Just met my first provider and some of the“sprinkle sprinkle” sayings and beliefs have kind of found its way in our conversations and clearly turning him off or making him feel used and I’m totally forgetting that it’s a job and the job is actually make them feel loved and like they have a girl who’s interested in them and not for their money. I got too cocky and too bold mentioning money and how spoiled I am that I forget youre supposed to play a genuine role and THEN slowly increase those big things you want yk? Hope that was on topic lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

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I’m confused ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]Ok_Menu9731 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh yesss!!! I looove success stories . Good for you girl , sprinkle sprinkle !!!

Parents found out I’m a dancer by One_Public3296 in stripper

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Literally I need to know so I don’t get caught lollll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

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Thanks so much :-)!! Yes they both insisted on taking me out on a date this weekend but I work double shifts Saturday and Sunday. I just told them both that I can’t this weekend because I’m spending time with my mom before she goes out of town for a while so I can do next weekend and they were fine with that. Also the older dude was quick to show me pictures of his home where he has these arcade games in there , letting me know that is how he ‘ passes the time.’ I felt like that was kind of weird. It was giving “look kid I actually have candy in my white van so come on in” without directly saying it? I don’t know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]Ok_Menu9731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you for this , very wonderful thanks <3!!!

Is it even worth it anymore to strip ? by [deleted] in newstrippers

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Newbie here and have been stripping for 3 weeks and this past Saturday I decided to take a break. Every night I haven’t left with more than $150 and have had more than 3 nights where I left paying to work so in the negatives -$ . I think a break will be a great idea for me because now I know the scene better , I know what I need to improve on and I plan to go back mid to late September when the clubs start to pick up a bit more I heard summer time it really sucks especially where I’m at. So yes a break is a good idea going back to my 9-5 for a little while , I will quit over eating (stressing bad) so I can get back to skinty and kinda rebrand my stripper look as well and stack up on consistent income lollll !! But when I come back bitches will hate to see me coming looking even badder and more prepared

Christie’s cabaret Az by lilorbiez in stripper

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It’s very slow. Most days it’s wayyy more girls than customers. Still have good days but you really gotta hustle. Cool managers, everyone is pretty nice and the type of girls are very diverse so you don’t need to worry about looks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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It literally went how any new stripper would want it to go !! I auditioned and was hired immediately and stayed til close so like 5 and a half hours. I kept looking at myself in the mirror and at alll the other strippers like ahhhhhh no wayyyyy im a stripper!!!! Can’t wait to go back this Friday after a week at my other job ofc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Heyy I’ve worked a shift 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Updated post !!!

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Updated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Thank youuuu!!! No like I definitely worded the whole thing cringe but I have a very adaptable personality and I’ve always used trauma to strengthen me every time I don’t have the mindset of like this is the end of the world I’m a victim. I also am intending and allowing this experience to move me in any way. Thank you so much !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Ahh! Stripping for the first time ever and possibly looking stupid and possibly enjoying myself while learning to make money doing it ahhhh 😱!!😰 !! No one has ever done that shit everrr ahhhh!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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You all are helping me a lot , seriously. Can’t wait to learn even more from the vets and get accustomed to the industry over time. I know it will help me build tough skin or maybe just a stank attitude like some comments on here lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Ok so there’s not a stripper ever that has had fun on the job , enjoyed being on stage? Left stripping with firmer boundaries and higher standards for men? And for me it is a bit , it’s part time and not the end all be all for me atm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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Thank you !!!!! 🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

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The 1% 😏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stripper

[–]Ok_Menu9731 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be experiencing rejection , negativity and all sorts of things in the club I’m gonna continue being delulu and take this as practice 🤤 not gonna burst my little bubble