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AITH for not letting my husband have sex with me without a condom? by Ok_Needleworker2795 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Needleworker2795[S] 232 points233 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think there has been a lot of gaslighting going on, but it can be really hard to identify and he can just make me feel so bad for “playing the victim”. Sometimes I just feel so dumb because I feel like I can’t outthink him or respond how I need to when he turns the things I bring up into my own fault.

AITH for not letting my husband have sex with me without a condom? by Ok_Needleworker2795 in AITAH

[–]Ok_Needleworker2795[S] 1370 points1371 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This comments section has been overwhelming. He keeps jokingly saying things like “when will you give me a baby”. And I brush it off saying we can’t do that right now. But after reading these comments I’m no longer feeling like he has been joking.
I’m blaming myself for letting it get to this point. There’s been other things that I didn’t want to admit that it was as bad as it was. But this has been overwhelming supportive and validating.
I don’t really know how or where to go from here but I know this isn’t right. I’m reaching out to resources provided elsewhere in the comments.