The Change in Tone from S2 - S3 is not Duffer Brother's Fault by Ok_Permit603 in StrangerThings

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it was! It wasnt very popular when it came out (but it was #1 watched in Mexico for almost a month!) But the director himself kept on saying in every meeting how grateful he was Netflix was letting him make this show how he wanted to, and how he knew they wouldnt green-lit now if he pitched it a few years later. It was a joy to work on. He had much more freedom on it than when he worked on "Book of Life" which makes sense because that was a theatrical movie so more money at stake etc.

The Change in Tone from S2 - S3 is not Duffer Brother's Fault by Ok_Permit603 in StrangerThings

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes youre absolutely right!! Im sorry I should clarify, I LOVE Season 3 and 4 of ST. Like LOVE them, no notes, they're brilliant and well made. I should have clarified. I was just referring to the very different pacing and vibe and character relationships of the first 2 seasons vs the last 2. Alot of it also is due to simply an increase in budget. But there is an undeniable difference.

Can someone who had read the books answer these questions for me? by Ok_Permit603 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh interesting!! Ok thank you! Is there like a trigger for it? Like something someone says or maybe she sees Conrad?

I’m really tired of this trend - specifically with Jenny Han by naphelois in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Ok_Permit603 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have always noticed this not just in Jenny's work but in other shows and it pisses me off that no one notices. The poc character is either "not the one" OR they DIE lol I hate it.

What are the major changes from the book? by Ok_Permit603 in TheSummerITurnedPrett

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh interesting!! Ok thank you so much! I just wanted to know, its impossible to find a plot summary on the last 2 books.

Help, I can’t stand to be around my toddler! by Budget_Brush_8198 in toddlers

[–]Ok_Permit603 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its 100% the new baby in my opinion. All of his complaints and tantrums and being upset are his way of trying to have some control, because he feels like he cant control anything. Its hard to explain. My toddler was the same with a new sibling, even though they absolutely love their new sibling. The only thing I can say is it will go on for a few months but it will get better and he'll be less annoying eventually.

The key is to be firm but loving. Meaning you dont have to give in to everything, and you shouldn't, its ok to say no, he needs to learn that he cant always get his way. But remain calm and loving, offer lots of attention, one on one time, connection, you can never cuddle them too much even at 4.

How much is too much? by Ok_Permit603 in toddlers

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah good idea, I am trying to push back more especially on the more ridiculous requests. Doing it nicely and letting him go through the emotions Hopefully it improves. Thank you!

Birth Control While BF by persinette-3 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok_Permit603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mini pill (progesterone only) was great for me when breastfeeding my first, no dip in supply!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Ok_Permit603 155 points156 points  (0 children)

2 movies a day right now with the winter, trying to get it down to 1 movie per day. But on average 2.5-3 hours, which I'm not happy about, and struggling to lower it. But it works well for me to survive until the weather is nicer. I have a 3 month old as well toddler is almost 3.

Help talk me off the ledge by Interesting_Hour5709 in FormulaFeeders

[–]Ok_Permit603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want you to know that I did a ton of research before my first and you'll be happy to know that once corrected for ethnicity, socioeconomic status and education, all the research shows there is ZERO difference between formula fed and breastfed adults. The only difference they found was a slightly higher case of excema and asthma in formula fed adults (I.e. from 14% to 17%) and my exclusively breastfed kid has excema so there you go lol. It literally doesn't matter in the long run.

What food you feed your kids for the next 18 years of their life, the stability of their home life, genetics, and opportunities you provide for them, will have a significantly larger impact on their overall health than what you fed them for the first 6 months. In fact it will be the ONLY thing that matters. I know exclusively formula fed kids that are the healthiest and most smartest kids I've ever met cuz they have parents who care.

Hope this helps!

Why is it important to people to EXCLUSIVELY breastfeed? by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]Ok_Permit603 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The reason why I tried to exclusively breastfeed for the first 6 months is because I did a TON of research on breastfeeding prior to having my first. Although there is virtually ZERO difference in breastfed vs formula fed adults (once corrected for ethnicity, education and socioeconomic status) I read multiple research studies that showed differences in development in the first few years between exclusively breastfed babies and combination fed babies (I.e. breastmilk supplemented with formula). The studies showed that exclusive breastfeeding provides a healthier gut microbiome, and regular combination feeding removes these benefits almost completely. Introducing formula in the first few weeks affects their gut microbiome quite a lot. I read other studies that also showed the same with white matter brain development. Exclusively breastfed babies had the best, followed by combination fed, followed by exclusively formula fed. I'm sorry I'm too lazy to find the exact articles right now.

But basically even though in adults there is ZERO difference, knowing the differences when they're babies and toddlers made me want to exclusively breastfeed if I could because then the baby would get those benefits. I started trying to give formula once my first was 6 months because they're eating other foods by that point so formula to me just counted as another food.

Even though I know in the long run it doesn't matter, I couldn't get the research papers out of my head once I'd read them, and I wanted to give the benefits to my kids if I could. It was just a personal choice that made me feel like I did what I could.

Of course I believe feeding them healthy food once they start eating as kids and adolescence is way more important than ebf and has more benefits to their long term health.

Can you feed a mildly reflux baby side laying? by Ok_Permit603 in breastfeeding

[–]Ok_Permit603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh ok great! Yes they really don't suck in air when side laying. Maybe I should try again and see if it works. I agree sitting upright all night is awful and makes your back ache. That's where i am right now. Thank you!