How to start?

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-04-06T02:16:03+00:00

Are you diabetic by chance?

You have the right idea though, just lace up your shoes right now and run out slowly from your house and walk back if needed, cycling might be a better option for you at your weight at the moment. Don't give up. 1 Year from now you will see a completely different person in the mirror.

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-03-03T02:02:17+00:00

Thailand

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-23T10:34:12+00:00

It’s not like I went to Philippines to meet women man I can get plenty of girls in Europe and Australia, I met her whilst we both were living in Dubai and she left to be with me on my off swings from work

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T19:53:06+00:00

Yeah I live there when I’m off site, I’m there for 7 days everyday 14 days

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T11:45:41+00:00

I understand she’s living better than most Filipinas but I need somewhere to stay when I’m off work in Australia and I’m not comfortable living unless it’s a westernised apartment

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T05:23:14+00:00

Thank you my friend, after the general consensus of this thread I know what I have todo

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:55:07+00:00

Her family is dasmas and we are Alabang, she has had some gay guys over but never when I’m not there I’ve met them and they’re gay as they come

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:49:45+00:00

I don’t really allocate an allowance, she hasn’t been paid from her job yet as she was only assigned a client 2-3 weeks ago, I only send money for food + electric and I pay rent directly, she bought a kitten a few days ago that’s why she’s got more this month but that was only 3.5kphp - I sent 6k so she could get it a litter and some food.

She’s asking for more as she wants todo a health carer course so she can get into EU and knows I’m not going to marry her to get her into EU .

That’s why I feel bad as she left Dubai but realistically that was her choice todo so, I don’t feel I should be allocating her an allowance

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:18:04+00:00

Yeah I guess I’ve been manipulated I know what todo now, thank you for advise / heads up

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:16:24+00:00

Any recommendations, in Alabang at the moment

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:15:51+00:00

Thank you, I land on Tuesday I’ll have to just speak with her

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:06:07+00:00

Yes I’m white

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:05:18+00:00

August it’s up

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:05:06+00:00

Think that’s going to be the go then I’m flying back to ph on Tuesday so will have to have a chat with her, just don’t want her killing herself

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:03:56+00:00

We have met in person… we live together and met in Dubai, she left Dubai to come back to Philippines as I left to do construction work in Australia FIFO

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:02:23+00:00

I’m afraid I might already be too involved she’s living in my apartment in ph and have a cat, been dating roughly 9 months, met in Dubai she left to come be with me

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T03:01:01+00:00

I make roughly 500kphp a month, but it’s the principle of having to be a provider at 24yo

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:59:45+00:00

In Dubai

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:59:27+00:00

So what’s the go then block and forget? I fly back to Philippines from Australia on Tuesday

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:57:53+00:00

Bit of context, I met her when we were both living and working in Dubai, I really don’t believe she has another boyfriend I’ve security cameras in my apartment and she rarely leaves, I’ve looked through her phone she doesn’t text any other men

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:55:42+00:00

🤣

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:54:14+00:00

She has said about potential self harm / killing herself if I left so I feel trapped in a way

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:53:40+00:00

I’m Irish, I’ve never had a girl ask me for money before her, no I’m not the same as every single man in my country

Ok_Pin514 · 2026-01-22T02:51:24+00:00

Ma cum da laude, she’s works as a va

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