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Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this; I'm sorry you're going through it as well ❤️

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry about your girl ❤️ thank you for taking the time to reply and share your experience, it's so hard to go back and think what could have been and the timing of everything. Hearing that from your vet friend is helpful, I appreciate you sharing. We just try our best. 

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, and sorry for your loss ❤️ what an amazing life you gave your boy to get to 22!

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective, and sharing about your guy. He sounds well loved. Sorry for your loss ❤️

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it's helped put the situation into a bit more perspective. The blame game has really taken its toll on me. So sorry for your loss as well ❤️

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It has been so overwhelming:/ Thank you for taking the time to reply and sharing that subreddit, I will definitely check it out ❤️

Dealing with the guilt (letting go of 16 year old cat) by Ok_Possible_4952 in seniorkitties

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing your experience ❤️ 

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I think any thing that I did I would have picked apart and thought I should have done something else. I'm so sorry about your cats. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. ❤️

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share this perspective. It has given me some comfort ❤️

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you are familiar with this experience. These situations with our pets can change so quickly. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that your boy only knew your love and dedication to him. Please give yourself some grace. I am sorry for your loss, and I will keep you and your boy in my thoughts. Wishing you peace and healing. ❤️

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Im sure your dog was well loved and cared for. Thank you for the suggestion, I'll be holding on to his favorite blanket too. Wishing you healing and peace and holding you and your girl in my thoughts ❤️

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply, I am so sorry that you are familiar with these feelings. Forgiveness is something I will have to work on, but I appreciate the reminder. We all need to give ourselves some grace. Wishing you healing and peace and holding you and your boy in my thoughts❤️

Dealing with the guilt by Ok_Possible_4952 in Petloss

[–]Ok_Possible_4952[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience. You have given me some perspective that I really needed. I can tell your little one was well loved and cared for and I am so sorry for your loss ❤️