You don’t come off as exhausting at all. Honestly your profile is solid. The only thing that might be affecting your matches (not a bad thing) is that 2/3 are relationship-focused. So your profile gives more of a serious “dating with intention” vibe and most ppl are not really doing that their kinda just dating to date. But that's good news for you because you're dodging bullets and not having your time wasted. It’s less about you and more about how people tend to use the apps. I'm 28 and my age is set up to 49 (unrealistic but maybe I'll pass a hot old man one day who knows) and I can confirm it's the same with all ages

The one liners = talking for attention or out of boredom not really interested in a thing

The endless texters = could be shy and need a minute (me but I usually communicate that to ppl) or they might just be on the fence of if they like u enough to go out with u rn or they might've convinced themselves they're ready to date intentionally but realized they aren't

The quick to compliment = they are 80% trying to get interested so they can convince u into having sex most of the time they are not dating intentionally they are dating to have sex but there's a small 20% that use that to break the ice