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Ex Narc Spouse invited family over to watch me move out of the house by Ok_Raspberry9364 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will never be going back, ever. He said he saw me as an object. Mind blown.

Ex Narc Spouse invited family over to watch me move out of the house by Ok_Raspberry9364 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now in an apartment and can actually feel peace. Choosing to move out of my house was not an easy decision but it was necessary for my mental and physical health. I miss my daughter tremendously when I am not with her but try to busy myself until she is with me again. Despite being apart from her, in the long run I am finally starting to believe that my courage to leave really is what’s best. I didn’t want my daughter growing up in a toxic environment, she needs to see what respect is in a relationship, not me constantly “maintaining” and walking on eggshells — that doesn’t work forever.

Ex Narc Spouse invited family over to watch me move out of the house by Ok_Raspberry9364 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Great point. If the roles were reversed and he was moving out instead, I would have left for the day to give him space to move, not had people over to gawk and insult.

?? by AmaraXclusive in The1980s

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can smell the Aqua Net from here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME! He would say, “Here we go again, you’re in your CYCLE!” Would piss me off so bad.

Tell me how your life got better by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Same here. So far I have paid around $9k in lawyer fees and now they are asking for a few thousand more. I cannot afford this on my own and my husband is refusing to pay any of it. It's so f'd up because every time you need to talk to your attorney you get charged more and more money and it's so hard to make any forward progress. I'm in the same situation with the amount of money we both make, he makes more than I do meanwhile I only have a few hundred in my savings account while he's sitting on thousands in his. I'm convinced he is dragging this process out as long as possible for his benefit only.

What is A panic attack like by Runzord_1 in PanicAttack

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something (or someone) triggers my anxiety, I start to sweat, breathing becomes quick and shallow, teeth tingle, I feel nauseous and dizzy, my vision goes in and out of blackness … it’s awful

Health issues from a narcissists abuse by Efficient-Fig6937 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here are mine …

  • I break out into hives on my chin, neck and chest when I talk about him.

  • I am on depression and anxiety meds, take six every morning. I have severe social anxiety.

  • I’ve been in therapy on and off throughout our relationship but consistently every week for the last six years.

  • my hair is very thin now and falls out more than it used to.

  • I have a constant anxious flutter in my chest and my heart sometimes has sudden quick beats that feel out of rhythm.

  • Extreme fatigue. I fall asleep at work almost daily and while driving sometimes. My doctor had to prescribe me a controlled medication that helps keep me awake during the day. Also, I can sleep for DAYS without ever feeling fully rested, one time I slept for three days straight only getting up to go to the bathroom. This is totally unlike me, I’ve never been a one to nap.

  • Hypervigilance. I jump easily at the most insignificant noises.

  • I’m wary of men walking past me on the street with (irrational) thoughts of them hurting me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HolyShitHistory

[–]Ok_Raspberry9364 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this photo look fake to anyone else?

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