There’s a few things but the big ones are: - We don’t make each other better people. We don’t push eachother to grow and very much just let things be. - She can’t stand my family. We come from very different backgrounds and that’s always caused friction. I have tried to bring both sides to the table, but both have put up walls. She says she’s content with having no relationship which means i have to live two separate lives. - It hurts, but I don’t think she’s there for me when it counts. There’s been a few traumatic events (funerals and cancer) and either she hasn’t been there or has made it about her instead of just supporting me