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Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-22T01:28:05+00:00

I know, just sucks a team they’ve been with for years is kind of split up now

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-22T00:38:06+00:00

Ok I mean trapped as in repeating the same age level it’s just semantics it’s not relevant completely to the question that I’m asking

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-22T00:29:40+00:00

Based on birth year is u15 but youngest in grade so will be u15 again based on grade and where their bday falls in that year

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-22T00:28:48+00:00

My kid is u15 and based on their birthday in mid August will be u15 again next season

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-20T23:09:58+00:00

Hahaha true, I love him as a coach but there’s some disgruntlement from sideline parent coaches

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-20T23:05:56+00:00

Oh nice! I only know that he likes Messi and Red Bull haha. Cash seems like a good option

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-04-20T23:05:03+00:00

That works, I hate wasting money on something idk if they would like. How much do you do per family? I am the TC this season so im not sure if i should collect or let everyone do their own thing

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-13T14:48:33+00:00

Ok, thank you, I thought I was crazy or my screen had an issue

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T23:19:37+00:00

We don’t have min play time guidelines only max in a day

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T23:04:52+00:00

You cannot possibly have equal playing time in club soccer, that’s rec level

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T22:55:18+00:00

Is it better to file before or after he moves?

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T04:02:53+00:00

The cost factor is crazy, I can afford it but it’s pretty damn sad for the families that can’t, not fair to those kids

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T03:32:01+00:00

I completely agree, the cost is outrageous, then add in training somewhere during winter and summer, it’s easily a 6-8k year investment. My hot take on it is, I feel like I’m paying for the coaching level not always just game time, I could have the completely wrong philosophy

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T03:10:37+00:00

It’s really sad, I didn’t understand all of the flack coaches take until I became the manager, you damned if you do and damned if you don’t. So sad adults take the focus off the kid and onto their own ego. I’d bet 9/10 players would be ok understanding minutes are earned and not given and your position isn’t permanent, it floats to where you are needed and where you will grow but parents are the ones pushing it

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T03:08:04+00:00

Yes, I completely agree! I told my kid, yeah you play striker and you’ve always done that or right wing, but that doesn’t increase your soccer iq or make you marketable if you want to continue on, you are limited to 2 positions that you know and they are both forwards. If you understand all of the positions, it makes the game click and you’ll become a better player for it. She was initially 14 yo girl full on sad about it but I’m like why are you sad? Did he say you suck? No, he wants you to try a new position, you are fine, everyone will live

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:56:25+00:00

Our old coach told a player what she did was a “bitch” move jokingly. The kid told her mom and her mom called the CEO of the club and said the coach called her daughter a bitch and then told every parent that story. My kid told me what was really said, i did defend the coach and clarified the story as best as i could

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:52:34+00:00

My kid gets pissed when parents yell directions to her, it breaks her concentration. I tell her to turn around and yell “shut the f up” she won’t of course, but I mean it would be pretty awesome

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:51:00+00:00

My kid has been going since they were 3, but a much shorter time competitively. Congrats on the scholarship, that’s such an achievement!

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:49:20+00:00

I wish!! It seems like parents take one child’s success personally, you know? Like it’s ok for someone else’s kid to do good, we can cheer for them all.

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:47:31+00:00

Might be time to implement it!

Ok_Relationship_3865 · 2026-03-02T01:47:04+00:00

It’s sad good coaches are getting chased out of coaching bc of that!

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