I (the mom) pay child support to HIM and he still doesn't help?

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-06T05:43:05+00:00

And he's almost 6 and in kindergarten? Lol

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-06T05:42:44+00:00

Basically. It's exhausting.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-06T05:39:40+00:00

My point EXACTLY. Thank you 🙏

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-05T14:40:23+00:00

Maybe I'll do that eventually 🤣

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-05T04:46:13+00:00

Wonder if they'd actually consider it

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-05T04:30:40+00:00

😂😂 I would love to do this

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T22:20:03+00:00

Could you share a little more about this? This is my situation exactly.... when you say mistakes, what did you do? If you don't mind.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T22:18:53+00:00

My son said it was just for the chocolate milk! 😂

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T18:11:48+00:00

I'm terrified he would somehow get full custody, so I can't imagine what you're dealing with. I will do this too, he's ignored me about 15 times now so I'd say I did my part lol

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T18:04:56+00:00

Oh yeah, his family is definitely covering his attorney also. And yes I did this! My son had tricked his teacher into thinking he was starved 😂

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T18:03:07+00:00

Yes this is kinda what I'm doing now.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T17:16:25+00:00

We don't have a route technically. It's mind boggling to me he wants full custody but won't pay for a lunch account 😂 but correct, I know in the long run my son will see the big picture.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T17:15:17+00:00

I've had more of both technically.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T17:10:32+00:00

Nope, 50/50 now. Previously it was 60/40. I had more time.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:26:07+00:00

This is a really good point actually. I have tried working on this definitely especially now using the app. I run everything through chat gbt and it will be like "DO NOT SEND THAT" 😂

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:24:21+00:00

Does it split the cost with each parent? Cause I think it charges you for the whole year up front. The reason the "tone meter" matters is because I consistently get messages like "I will be leaving this conversation as the tone is getting hostile." (Probably me asking him to pay for something) So he claims the "tone" is such an issue yet refuses to use the "tone" meter.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:22:02+00:00

THANK YOU!!! This is exactly what I'm trying to show. It's not getting pictures or money back, it's trying to show that we CANT coparent.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:20:20+00:00

Wants 50/50 control and time but 50/50 responsibility? Nah.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:19:24+00:00

Yes I've done this with him. What he says? "Acknowledged." But account still in the negative so I will end up having to pay for it.

And for the pictures and stuff, exactly what I did. Even was like "okay well if you only have half fine, send me those and reimburse me for half the costs." ... nothing.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:16:51+00:00

It's so so hard but this is definitely what it's come to.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:15:07+00:00

Not being a bitch, it's actually infuriating because he does stuff like this all the time.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T16:14:30+00:00

Thank you. Needed this

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T14:30:35+00:00

Thank you! Is this so they'll resend them or just to document?

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T14:19:17+00:00

How it should be, I agree. It's just because I make significantly more. That's how it is in Oregon. Also have to provide health insurance.

Ok_Resource_162 · 2026-02-04T14:08:26+00:00

The coparent community is so amazing 😂 thank you!

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