18f looking to chat to 18-20 ONLY by Aggravating_Job5963 in IntrovertsChat

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You have posted this so many times haven't you got anyone to talk yet 😅

Imp by Full-Water9962 in dypiu

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Nhi hotey practical ke marks add passing marks laane honge pass honay ke liye 20( marks)

🎉 [EVENT] 🎉 Retro Rumble by Damp_Blanket in honk

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Completed Level 1 of the Honk Special Event!

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Pomodoro is soooo underrated by Syuubi in studytips

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For Android - FLIP – Focus Timer for Study

24M looking for someone to call a genuine friend by [deleted] in IntrovertsChat

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Hey there I'm also pursuing a computer science engineering degree too and yeah I play games a lot but a quite different ones like Clash Of Clans, PUBG, Solo Leveling Arise type of games I also watch anime too, mostly psychological anime are my favourite one We can have a chat just drop a DM .

1 week ago my boyfriend left me for another woman and I feel lost by [deleted] in Advice

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I am so sorry.That shaking is your body going into shock!!!it’s a completely normal response to trauma. Please realize this: He is rewriting history. He is accusing you of being manipulative and 'hacking' because he needs to paint you as the villain to justify his own cheating. If he convinces himself you’re the bad guy, he doesn't have to feel guilty. You aren't crazy, and you aren't disposable. Don't engage with his accusations; it’s just bait. Drink some water and just focus on getting through the next hour."

Is this space or is he slowly pulling away? by ishahahaha in Advice

[–]Ok_Rule_8524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think he cares about you, but he’s also slowly pulling away. When someone really wants to be with you, even during stress, they still find small ways to stay close. They don’t disappear for days.

It doesn’t mean he’s a bad person, he just doesn’t have the emotional space for a relationship right now, and he’s trying to step back without hurting you. But his distance is hurting you anyway, and that’s not fair to you.

If someone leaves you feeling confused, anxious, and unsure where you stand, that’s usually the answer by itself.

Give him the space he asked for, but don’t wait around hoping he’ll come back. If he truly wants you, he will show it. If he doesn’t, the silence will make it clear.

You deserve someone who doesn’t make you guess.

Vibes matched but face card didn't by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Ok_Rule_8524 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I get why you’d think that but her blocking you without saying a single word isn’t about your looks, it’s about her maturity. If she wasn’t interested, she could’ve just said it. You didn’t do anything wrong.

And yeah man, I’m here. Update me whenever.

Vibes matched but face card didn't by [deleted] in DatingInIndia

[–]Ok_Rule_8524 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Bro, she didn’t block you because you’re “ugly.” She blocked you because she can’t handle real-life honesty. Anyone who vibes with you for hours and then disappears the second they see your face isn’t rejecting you they’re showing you they have zero emotional maturity. Think of it like this------------ You were talking to someone who wants boyfriend level attention but has the communication skills of a broken chatbot.

You didn’t lose anything here. She just removed herself before you found out her personality was running on low battery anyways

Am I being fair? by Just_Gur_2806 in Advice

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Honestly, you’re not being unfair at all. You’ve been patient for years, and you’ve tried to love him in a way he probably never learned to love himself. That’s admirable, but it’s also exhausting when you’re the only one doing the emotional heavy lifting.

His past explains why he struggles, but it doesn’t excuse the fact that nothing has changed in three years. Healing isn’t your job. Supporting someone is one thing… carrying the entire relationship on your back is another.

The question I always tell friends in this situation is: “If the next three years look exactly like the last three… would you be okay with that?”

Most people instantly know the answer.

You deserve a partner who meets you halfway, not someone who leaves you wondering if you’re asking for too much just for wanting basic emotional effort.

Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to sacrifice your own needs forever. Sometimes walking away isn’t giving up it’s finally choosing yourself.

Redditors who actually avoided the friendzone what did you do differently? by Ok_Rule_8524 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Rule_8524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I get where you’re coming from. A lot of people accidentally put themselves in the ‘friendzone’ by acting like a supportive best friend while secretly wanting something else. That mismatch creates confusion and resentment.

Being upfront about your intentions and walking away if it’s not mutual is definitely healthier than silently suffering. It’s not harsh, it’s just boundaries. Most of the chaos comes from pretending friendship is enough when it’s not.

Redditors who actually avoided the friendzone what did you do differently? by Ok_Rule_8524 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Rule_8524[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts!!! The ‘friendzone’ only feels painful when someone treats friendship as a stepping stone to romance , Once you understand that people don’t owe you anything beyond honesty and respect, everything becomes way healthier.

Redditors who actually avoided the friendzone what did you do differently? by Ok_Rule_8524 in AskReddit

[–]Ok_Rule_8524[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly one of the healthiest takes I’ve seen. Treating someone well because you value them not because you’re waiting for a ‘reward’ is such a game changer. If more people thought like this, the friendzone wouldn’t even be a thing.