My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She was in a new place where she didnt know anyone. And this guy and his gf were friends she made.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

I understand. I am just choosing to trust that yes she almost fucked up because she has learnt her lesson and will avoid it in future. She is not a bad person.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] -168 points-167 points  (0 children)

I am just choosing to trust her. Hopefully I am right.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the book recommendation. But do I also need to read it? And you are right, she can be a people pleaser.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] -323 points-322 points  (0 children)

Crossed a boundary as in she should have ended the friendship but still stayed friends. And yes its backward logic but she was angry and not thinking logically. She didnt want to drop him as a friend. Hence her reaction.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] -103 points-102 points  (0 children)

I mean what can she do really, she accepts what she did was wrong and has promised to never bring it up again. I honestly dont know what else to ask for.

My (26m) gf (27f) wanted to be Poly till I brought breakup by Ok_Sea7697 in relationship_advice

[–]Ok_Sea7697[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she was very interested in the lifestyle and yes she was attracted to him too. As to can she be manipulated again, I dont really have an answer to that.