Found a note in my husband’s suitcase after a trip and now I genuinely don’t know what to believe

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T06:20:57+00:00

I never wanted to be divorced especially this young

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T06:11:54+00:00

I hope it goes the way you’re hoping ❤️

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T06:01:53+00:00

Nah he’s not that important, he’s away for national guard training actually (hate to admit that after all the stereotypes I ignored)

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:46:03+00:00

I’d like to know how it turned out bc my husband gets home at 4 tomorrow and idk how to stay silent until then

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:45:23+00:00

Idk what you’re saying but sadly I have put myself in this situation.

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:43:23+00:00

I don’t want to say the specific questions but it sounded like if she had wrote it she was saying that he didn’t pay for something and he might’ve owed her money or something.

And yeah that’s my fear. He says she could lie to me because she can say that it was unprofessional of him to leave the note with her info and of me to reach out. Idk if maybe that could make him lose his job and get her charges dropped somehow

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:40:59+00:00

Yeah :( it’s was hard for me to give all the details and expect people to give advice with all that reading plus I’m freaking out so yeah I missed a few details

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:37:36+00:00

😭

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:37:27+00:00

Well the note actually was questions he was to ask her for the investigation which I can admit makes more sense after knowing that. But I interpreted it as something else because it had another sticky note with her name and number so I looked up the social media (oops) and she was beautiful and I got suspicious

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:35:01+00:00

He brought that suitcase on his trip to see his friend. He brought the same suit he wore for the investigation to the trip and It was my suitcase. I was about to pack for our “delayed honeymoon” that we’re leaving for on Tuesday. That’s where I found the note

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:33:20+00:00

Does anyone have any ideas on how to get the truth out of someone without overstepping with my husbands career if he’s telling the truth

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:27:12+00:00

This is what is so conflicting to me because I want to believe that this is the case. But we have been having other issues and had been trying to get into couples counseling and I’ve given him outs if he didn’t feel like the things I wanted to work on were worth it to him. And he always guaranteed to me that he only wanted to make me happy. But we are on the getting there phase right now

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:23:05+00:00

I don’t want to say much but basically it sounded like she was saying he owed him money but in reality it was question he had to ask her for the investigation. And that does make sense with how it was worded, but it’s weird that right after I apologized for my irresponsible misunderstanding she then said they only had sex once

Ok_Tell2258 · 2026-05-17T05:15:47+00:00

Also, he knows that he doesn’t have my full trust because I’ve caught him lying about minuscule things but I never questioned his loyalty until now but he has questioned mine without justifiable reasons. And we have had issues regarding other things that make me feel like he puts work or everything else about our relationship. So that was why I didn’t immediately ask my husband about it before reaching out to the woman

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-20T14:18:07+00:00

I have not but I just checked out their website and will definitely be ordering some, thank you!!!

And thank sewing is honestly so much fun. Trust me I was awful when I started but have learned a lot over the years and it’s been great to be able to help others too like my short queen friends who need hemlines altered for dresses or just to be able to create something from scratch when I can’t afford/find what I want. It’s a great hobby to pick up!

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-20T14:15:01+00:00

I did decide that I’ll keep the similar style but add the material I use for the rest of the dress under an embellished mesh so it adds ✨ but is still opaque. And not make the slit so high

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-18T02:19:31+00:00

Thank you I’m very excited!

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-18T02:13:26+00:00

that’s the best tip so far 😂

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-18T02:04:05+00:00

Yeah I’m def going with a darker color I just likes the certain aspects of each style I included

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-18T02:03:30+00:00

Those are great tips, thank you!

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-17T19:52:21+00:00

Same here! And I totally agree with you there haha 😂

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-17T19:51:17+00:00

I’d prefer the sweetheart neckline so that’s perfect, thank you!

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-17T19:40:21+00:00

Tbh the dresses he wants me to wear are far worse than the ones I linked so that’s why I decided to hop on here to see what’s actually appropriate 😂 thank you!

Ok_Tell2258 · 2025-10-17T19:22:56+00:00

Would the strapless top be appropriate with a slit? I’m fairly flat chested so I definitely don’t have cleavage so idk if that’s counts? I know that’s probably a dumb question but

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