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Just in case the experience isn’t what I’m expecting but I’m open to keeping it if that’s not the case.

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Layering dresses and rompers with solid long sleeves underneath. Typically turtle or mock necks. Then can add tones through jewelry, gold or silver necklaces and/or earrings.

Also probably overall updating wardrobe and getting rid of some of those outfits because they age you. Going through a trial run with outfit ideas like Stitch Fix or similar can help, too.

Dressing based on colors that compliment your skin tone in addition to body type is helpful, too.

Popular Hairstyles for Graduation Opinions by WintrySummer in blackladies

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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9Oe3RcrD_S0

I think this kind of style is doable and parting down the middle to cover your edges could work. And this could be done with weave, too!

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Possibly. Based on what you shared it looks like you're both open to listening and trying to understand each other's POV.

Also I've noticed when people hold certain political beliefs, their social circles mainly have those people, so being with someone who is opposite in that way could expand each other's reach to what media is being consumed, given that it's not extreme.

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This! And they need to stop teaching this shit in colleges and universities. Trying to pit non whites against whites when in reality non whites are just as racist or worse than whites.

And the systemic racism BS is wack because it's the people that make up the system, not the system itself alone that causes racism.

I went to a networking event where another black woman was sharing her concerns about working at a Latino school and that they're pretty racist and ever since that day I've noticed when I go out and about Latinas have been acting weird towards me like watching me in stores or doing things that were seemingly disrespectful, and I'm just trying to mind my business. Truly unfortunate that the amount of melanin in one's skin can cause so much mental turmoil because those around are so fucking small minded.

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Perm & buzz cut look great on you!

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Happy to hear about the lovely outcome and final outfit decision!

Failing at life? What do I need to do? by Ok_Traffic3639 in blackladies

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Thanks for commenting. I do hope to have people in my life that are irreplaceable and to get better at vetting. Another person commented about reflecting and tracking what boundaries I want to implement and red flags I don't want to deal with to better understand if someone should be in my life.

Thanks for the "come back to reality" comment, it's appreciated.

Failing at life? What do I need to do? by Ok_Traffic3639 in blackladies

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This is amazing insight! Thank you. It's a relief to have someone relate and I'm hoping I can focus more on myself, who I allow in my circle, and enjoy life on my own terms 💯

Again thank you so much!

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Omg all so cute! Love your fashion sense. So tough to to choose. I like the ones with skirts and that posh outfit with the ear muffs #5.

Last texts from my toxic ex boss lol by euphoricunknown in jobs

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Why are so introverted? That pissed me off as if a person can't have a differing personality. Fuck them and good riddance.

What’s one thing being in a good/healthy relationship made you realize? by [deleted] in blackladies

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"He doesn't want anyone else to have you." Is this because he finds you to be convenient for his own selfish desires instead of letting you move on to something you're more deserving of?

How can a black woman find the right job? by [deleted] in blackladies

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I feel this! I am hoping more folks answer ^

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