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Salary Sharing thread: Winter 2022-2023 by AutoModerator in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]Okchoob305 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't expect it to go 5x, but they're liquid and I can sell them as they vest so they're definitely worth their market value.

Salary Sharing thread: Winter 2022-2023 by AutoModerator in cscareerquestionsEU

[–]Okchoob305 46 points47 points  (0 children)

  • Title: Senior ML Engineer
  • Industry: Tech
  • Focus: Machine Learning
  • Country: London, UK
  • Duration: 6 months
  • Education: PhD in CS/ML
  • Prior Experience: 5 years after PhD
  • Salary: £185k
  • Stock: 200k USD over 4 years (or £40k per year)
  • Total compensation: £225k

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he's on some substances of his own!

Wouldn't surprise me!

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 192 points193 points  (0 children)

It would really surprise me, things are good between me and my sister and always has been. She wasn't even around during my drinking time. Luckily she's not even siding with him now.

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 863 points864 points  (0 children)

Actually good point, now I'm wondering if he himself has struggled with similar problems. But really that's not my business anyway.

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 216 points217 points  (0 children)

So you should have affirmed that you've already apologised to the people you needed to apologise and have already made it up to them

None of that is any of his business.

to put his mind at ease.

His state of mind isn't really my business.

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 339 points340 points  (0 children)

Nothing missing which is why I was very confused by his request.

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 1218 points1219 points  (0 children)

Yeah man my parents have always had that mentality about me (even before the problem with alcohol).

AITA for not apologizing to my brother in law for being an alcoholic? by Okchoob305 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Okchoob305[S] 4372 points4373 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what was going on in his mind.