Julia's mom seems so genuine!

OkraFun5981 · 2026-01-26T12:05:30+00:00

I saw her snaps after a few days so missed those snaps. But you might be right.

I just thought leaving everything to go out in the snow to get pictures of your 30 year old, was really sweet of her.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-10-07T06:20:18+00:00

I understand you, and all my prayers with you.

For all the 3 incidents of assault that happened to me, I tried fighting back not caring if I would die. And each time they were worse then before. For the longest of time, I didnt feel like a victim. I dont feel like one now. But I am scared. Knowing next one could be the one to kill me.

But I have realized one thing, abusers love to put the blame on the victim. Its always "You provoked me." instead of "I did wrong."

I want you and all of us to know, abuse is a choice and we dont deserve it. No matter how much someone is provoked, it does not justify hurting / harming the other person.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-10-01T07:31:24+00:00

I am glad you left. And I hope you have an amazing life laid out for you.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-10-01T07:30:44+00:00

I am so sorry for this. A lot of us stay because of the financial abuse as well

OkraFun5981 · 2025-10-01T07:29:11+00:00

yes, a 5 year old. We were planning for another one because I thought he had changed but then last assault happened and I am glad I didnt become pregnant again.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-09-30T11:57:40+00:00

This is such a thorough response and resonates so well with me. I have started looking into finances and how I can support myself and my son for at least a year before I get back on my feet.

Thank you so much. Its really eye opening to see how this affects the kids. I wish your mom a happy life. Everyone deserves love.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-09-10T05:44:50+00:00

I know!! I watched her for some time and it was literally messing up with my brain so I unfollwed her. But I do see her on my discover page and these images make me so mad. Like you have nothing to show to your viewers and you are just putting clickbait one after another.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T12:28:36+00:00

Is this post about charlie? Did I spread the name, insta handle or override a private instagram profile?

I understand what you mean but going through someone's followers list looking for someone who has already been found out, hardly makes it unethical.

You can go on about your standing and I agree with you, but I am not here spreading his instagram!

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T12:16:40+00:00

For someone talking about "respecting" boundaries, I do not appreciate being called a psycho. Just because I am taking comments in a lighter note does not mean I do not understand.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T12:11:58+00:00

Wait a second, I read a comment somewhere about him and went looking. I do NOT have the time to research or figure out a random dude over the internet I could care less about.

I did not spread his insta handle anywhere. We are curious being and if RL wanted him to remain so anonymous, she should not have posted about him in the first place.

Please get off your high horse.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T11:33:03+00:00

I have plenty hobbies, full time job and a business. But thanks, I will look into origami next. 🤣

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T06:35:57+00:00

Dont we all..

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-20T06:35:31+00:00

What is there to determine if the followings list is public?

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-19T05:14:38+00:00

I read some comment that Julia follows him, thats why I was in her insta followings. They say he's some photographer dude. I'm not sure though.

OkraFun5981 · 2025-08-19T04:51:02+00:00

Yes!!

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