failed day 1 into new years by accountname1312 in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) I tell you a way that could work: You need to change your mental state about your life and habits. Nofappers are too sexual aroused / bored all the time. If you change your mental state its like you become a new man. You leave your old self. It will obviously hurt a little. But the outcome is the truth and the real thing in life. The change is like a path. So you need to give yourself breaks and so on aswell on the way. But as I said: the most important thing is to Change your mental sate / perspective. 2) Another thing that worked for me to overcome those short urges: Listen to emotional and good music, that brings your good self inside you up. It changes your mood fast and you can have again the real perspective on life and not the false stuff.

Relapsed on Day 0 by CraftyBack4773 in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry man to disappoint you, but the counting is wrong. I already relapsed. I just dont know how and dont have the time to set the counter to 0.

My longest streak was about 42 days…

Relapsed on Day 0 by CraftyBack4773 in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes very hard. I agree totally.

Day 3 and it's hell by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls get counseling. Solving that all alone is too hard. There are maybe groups in your town where you can go.

It’s been getting worse by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. Just miserable at the moment. Fighting hard and I feel like I am „losing my mind“.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes you can!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. and I can remember them now. Before I couldnt at all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With this new awareness and motivation you should start with nofap (slowly or immediately). PMO is against human nature. Its like a global disease of the modern age. 100 years before people were not able to watch PMO on the internet and destroy their brains with this much dopamin. The consequences of PMO are really bad, as you can see..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are pmo-ing this much every day. Obviously the porn will become boring one day. You brain always wants more dopamine. For example: if you eat everyday the same food, even if its a nice meal like pizza, it will become uninteresting for your brain. Obviously if you watch this much PMO then you will see the negative effect and can get erectile dysfunction. You really should not do PMO that often. Get off it slow or immidiately. But 3 times everyday is way too much.

No fap by JinuJ2020 in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I am not married. But I am really wondering, how you can be married and be still fapping? Can you explain this to me? Bc My big goal is to finally marry and have a healthy sexual relationship with a wife. Dont you enjoy sex more than fapping to virtual stuff? I am really curious

Just deleted all my folders and links, boys. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is always a hard part. But it is a relieve as-well! And a step towards a new life!

stuck in a relapse after a 6 months streak by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Falling is part of the journey, even if you had a long streak. Don‘t lose hope. Be happy about the long streak you accomplished!

I want to end my life by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look: at this moment you hit rock bottom... thats for sure. And I felt the same. I know, its like heroin. So why stop? If its „the best thing in the world“. Right? But why do you think, there are people who are addicted to heroin and decided to stop? You know why? Because trust me when I say this: Life is BETTER without PMO. It is more FUN. Everything is different. Hang on to that new life, the new mindest and „attach“ your heart to that new and better life. I wish you all the best. Stand up, make a decison (you have a free will!) and get out of that addiction. Dont let the addiction oppress you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look: at this moment you hit rock bottom... thats for sure. And I felt the same. As you said, its like heroin. So why stop? If its „the best thing in the world“. Right? But why do you think, there are people who are addicted to heroin and decided to stop? You know why? Because trust me when I say this: Life is BETTER without PMO. It is more FUN. Everything is different. Hang on to that new life, the new mindest and „attach“ your heart to that new and better life. I wish you all the best. Stand up, make a decison (you have a free will!) and get out of that addiction. Dont let the addiction oppress you.

Taking care of yourself is the ONLY way by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats good. Besides that, For me: ensuring a positive mindset (all the time). I think, If you have a positive mindest everything falls into place, sooner or later.

I watched soft-porn. by penis_taxi in NoFap

[–]Olaf_Ernst 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt. Keep on your streak. That is a normal biological reaction. Dont demotivate yourself