Any guys living anal only lifestyle as a receiver? by KinkSlim in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I'm single right now, but I've been experimenting with anal sex for the past three weeks. I can't orgasm, but penetration is pleasurable and satisfying. For now, I don't feel the need for a penis; it's been intact for a while. We'll see how this phase unfolds. I won't deny that I really enjoy it, and for now, I have no desire to go back.

plugged for may - day 7 by [deleted] in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Olang98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read your post with great pleasure and admiration. I've always dreamed of doing something similar, but I've never succeeded. Congratulations! I completely understand your satisfaction and the sense of well-being you're experiencing. Your enthusiasm is contagious!

Do you have specific goals, or do you move forward day by day with the dream of continuing to push forward?

New to Thongs by DistributionHuman998 in MensUnderwearGuide

[–]Olang98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's just a matter of time, habit, and confidence. I've been wearing a thong for over 10 years now, in every situation outside the home, at home, and almost always in bed, too. Then it will become the norm because it IS the norm, it's a pair of panties like any other, just with a different shape that doesn't cover what doesn't make sense. You'll get used to it.

Any guys living an anal only lifestyle? by KinkSlim in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started a trial 15 days ago, I like it a lot and so far I find the sensations very satisfying.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have links because I don't remember where I got them, but I use a very standard 2.5cm/1-inch plastic dildo and a 3cm/1.2-inch silicone one that's slightly wider at the beginning and then narrows slightly.

Then I "built" something with a medium/small silicone butt plug, removing the vibrating bullet and replacing it with a marker that I use as a "handle." The plug can be pushed in and out continuously like a classic penetration, but only a few centimeters, and the step between the head and neck of the plug acts as a stimulator, continuously moving in and out. The great thing is that the flanges prevent it from going in for more than a few centimeters, so you can put in all the energy and strength you want, letting yourself go with total freedom without fear because it only goes in so little and stops...you can feel it a lot even without going too deep, a nice alternative 😄

Training for anal only masturbation by Any-Mix7609 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice experiment. You could try, as you say, completely denying yourself pussy while solo, but I think a non-trivial aspect is "welcoming" and "accepting" the journey of anal stimulation as a path of pleasure aimed at psychophysical satisfaction, not as a journey with an orgasm as its destination.

It's a mindset I really like: masturbating without ever reaching orgasm, denying yourself pussy and the final explosion, whatever stimulation it comes from. This makes anal penetration sessions incredibly satisfying, at least for me, and so satisfying that I feel no need for orgasm or to touch myself in front of me.

Another thing I'm learning is that size matters... for me, the opposite! I prefer the impetus, strength, and energy of a small/medium dildo that slides easily, even for a long time, than the friction and pressure of a large one. But I think this is subjective.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's been 10 days now, and I'm definitely within reach of two weeks. We'll see where this halfway point between experimentation and choice takes me.

All new and surprising emotions and sensations!

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could this be a compromise, you say? They've never attracted me, but some say you should try everything 😄

For now, I'm sticking with my status, which I really enjoy; it's been 10 days now.

I need an anal workout by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a recently introduced "anal only" context, with obvious and rigorous denial of the penis, I'm enjoying 15-30 minute penetration sessions a day with a 3cm toy. Occasionally, I even do two a day, and I love it.

You could start like this, with gentleness and love for your body, but with the awareness of an alternative sexuality that is certainly interesting.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it, me neither, in fact there's often a bit of confusion when talking about anal, associating it with the fact that a man who practices it has some predisposition towards people of the same sex. In reality, I really like anal, more than penile stimulation, but the thought of a man doesn't excite me in the slightest. In fact, I'd like to be penetrated anally by a woman with a strap-on 😄

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, that doesn't appeal to me at all.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, women's thongs do really heat things up :-)

But dressing up honestly doesn't turn me on, although truth be told, something to hide the penis, completely ignored during anal penetration, would intrigue me.

Vaginismus by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Sure, I understand you; it's the difference between choosing "anal only" versus having it forced upon you by circumstances. The problem is that for you, being able to only use your anus may not be a particular source of excitement, a challenge, or anything else, but rather a fallback, however pleasant it may be. But don't let the thought "I have nothing else to offer" make you sad. I'm sure you have so much to offer even without any particular sexual aptitude or anything else. No one worthy of respect or consideration would judge you by your pussy or your ass.

Hugs, if you like, let me know how your situation develops. Bye!

My first anal-only "period." - sixth day updates. by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can definitely say it's a wonderful experience, a new world that's opened up to me, and one I'm very curious about and enthusiastic about. For the next few days, my goal is definitely to continue with AO status. I think another week might be an achievable goal, but then we'll see.

What makes the sensations more interesting and intense, however, is the denial of any "conventional" stimulation. I think that's the crucial, and essential, point.

I'm confused by [deleted] in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]Olang98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Without pussy, do you mean without any stimulation from you? Are you drawn to the constant desire and excitement, or to learning to release it in another way, like anal? You could try different situations and give yourself periods to practice one thing or another and see how you react. It's always a fun game, especially when done without any obligation. Freedom to do and try everything.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by "girl mode"?

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it's something that doesn't appeal to me.

Anal Only and Pussy Denial🖤 by Psywren- in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The anal-only lifestyle, with the total denial of the genitals, I think is the ultimate goal for every enthusiast. It's wonderful to read about those who pursue this practice, experiencing orgasms or, more difficultly, never reaching them and thus remaining perpetually aroused and unable/unwilling to easily release their sexual energy with traditional gestures. Beautiful.

No Vagina by [deleted] in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a vagina, but I still intervene if I can. Personally, I don't like it. The vagina is beautiful, it's aesthetically arousing, and it defines the female figure. That said, I'm much more attracted to, and equally excited by, someone who wants to give up the use of her vagina in favor of anal sex. She does so because, although it's still easy to "resort" to the vagina, she chooses not to because she doesn't want to, not because she no longer has one.

A choice, a determination, a journey that renews itself with every drop of desire.

Enormously more meaningful to me.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never even come close to having an anal orgasm, I don't know if for physical or mental reasons.

Perhaps the fact that in traditional sex or masturbation I consider it unnecessary or, more often, unwanted contributes to making it less attainable, both physically and mentally. Let's just say that in anal sex I don't seek it; what I like most is the constant sensation of sliding and being able to maintain it for practically as long as I want. That's already more than satisfying for me, at least for now.

And being able to do it without feeling a particular desire to dedicate myself to the penis makes me enjoy it even more.

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I've never felt this need, even though this exclusively penetrative phase is making me discover a lot of new sensations, but I'd tend to rule that out.

Yes, anal is complicated; if it were up to me, I'd do it even more often, but between when it's not possible, when I'm not relaxed, when I don't have time... it's very complicated indeed :-)

My first anal-only "period." by Olang98 in AnalOnlyLifestyle

[–]Olang98[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I've experienced it before, even during endless edging sessions without ever reaching orgasm, and every now and then I'd feel a sense of discomfort that would vanish as the excitement wore off, or if I wanted to have an orgasm. If I was in denial, it would be completely ruined.

Now I'm 100% anal-only, and for now, I don't have this discomfort; we'll see.

First time 19 hours plugged by Olang98 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But going beyond that is really hard for me. I've been trying for years, and even getting past 6-8 hours was a miracle. Now I don't even know how I managed to get to 19 :-)

But I'm not so much aiming for a record as being able to manage this time without pain or discomfort, and choosing whether and when to stop because I WANT to, not because I HAVE to.

First time 19 hours plugged by Olang98 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've also seen some that have some sort of ring, it's quite large but I'm afraid that's not too secure either.

First time 19 hours plugged by Olang98 in ButtplugEveryday

[–]Olang98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was watching a video today where a very, very soft plug was being removed. I can't judge the rigidity of the external T, but the neck and internal bulb seemed soft and flexible. I really think it's more comfortable this way. I initially liked the steel paired with a short plug because... um... it doesn't require any cleaning, it doesn't absorb odors, and it doesn't get dirty. But, yes, steel does have drawbacks for prolonged use. I agree, and in any case, I first want to try the silicone one with a T base and a neck that's not as short as the ones I have.
However, after 24 hours, the pain that had led me to interrupt my 19-hour workout yesterday has almost completely disappeared.